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Posted: Sun May 11, 2014 2:14 pm

The messaging on Facebook started in mid-March. The lad changed his FB account at end-March, most likely due to suspended by FB for sending multiple spams. Then he send message to Imelda. The 2nd FB also closed, this also seems to be due to sending too many spams. The following message indicated to the chat log now, and can’t retrieve the chat contents;

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This message is no longer available because it was identified as abusive or marked as spam.

However, this bait is slow going and contents are boring, probably not necessarily share all chat logs.

This bait is slow going and I am almost intended hook him and doing nothing for long time. No money story yet, I am sure he is not yet confident that he has built any trust between my character, Imelda. Imelda is an Engineer working in Hong Kong, with Malaysian Chinese and Aboriginal background.

Name him Girly Soldier because he wants to keep in touch daily like teenage girls. That’s not grown up busy working people do.
Originating IP: 197.251.160.253
Originating ISP: Vodafone Ghana
City: Accra Country of Origin: Ghana

In Mid-March

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Girly to Me
Hi! this is Girly , i hope you are fine.
have a pleasant night rest. bye

The Next day

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Girly to Me
good morning my friend, how are you today

He repeats this kind of greeting only emails. So boring.

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Me to Girly
Hello. thank you for your email. How are you? You are in Colorado Springs? I used to be in USA before, in San Jose CA, and Phoenix AZ.

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Girly to Me
Greetings my friend, i am fine thanks for asking. Been having a busy day, how are you and how has your day been so far? Well yes i am from Colorado Springs.
I hope you enjoyed your stay while you were in those places.
I hope to chat with you and get to know you better.
Good evening and have a pleasant one. Bye

Next day

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Girly to Me
Good morning my friend, how are you today and how was your night?
Just wanted to wish you a pleasant day ahead

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Me to Girly
Hi, I am fine, thanks! How is your day?
So you are you in Colorado Springs now? I never been there.

Next Day

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Girly to Me
good morning my friend, how are you doing today

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Girly to Me
i am currently not in Colorado, i am in Libya Africa, on a peacekeeping mission under the UN.
tell me more about you please.
have a nice day

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Me to Girly
You are in Libya!! Are you military?

Continues like this daily basis.

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Girly to Me
Hello,Good evening, how are you doing and how has your day been?
well, let me formally introduce myself, i am Colonel Girly Soldier, i am from United State of America, i am currently in Libya serving under the United Nations(UN) on a peace keeping mission here in Libya since the 2011 civil war. Yes i am in the military.
How about you, what do you do? and where are you from?
Thank you for writing me, look forward to hearing from you again.
Have a pleasant evening. Bye

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Me to Girly
Thank you for email. I am fine, thank you. How is the weather in Libya?
I am originally from Sarawak, Malaysia. I am native of Borneo, and currently in Kuala Lumpur, working as an engineer at electrical device maker. I am Quality and Reliability engineer. My parents used to live in Kuching, Sarawak, but they are also in Kuala Lumpur now. I will move to Hong Kong shortly, for job assignment.
Have a nice day!!

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Girly to Me
Hello Imelda, Good afternoon and happy Sunday, i hope you are fine and having a pleasant day.
Thank you for telling me about yourself, seems like we studied in the same field, i studied mechanical engineering before enlisting in the military, i intended to be an engineer but there were some circumstances that lead to me enlisting in the military about two and a half decades ago.
It would be nice to know more about you, tell me about your personal life if you don't mind.
I really wish we could chat sometimes and get to know each other better.
Maybe on yahoo messenger, if you wouldn't be chanced to come on facebook.
Please let me know which will be better.
Have a pleasant day today and thank you for your last email.
Bye for now.

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Girly to Me
Good morning Imelda, i hope you are fine.
Have a pleasant day!

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Me to Girly
Hi Girly Soldier, how are you? I hope everything OK there.
Regards

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Girly to Me
Good day Imelda, yes everything is okay over here, how about with you?
i sent you some messages on facebook this morning.
currently in my office sorting out some paper work when your message came in now.
i hope you are having a pleasant day?
Would love to be able to chat with you more, are you on yahoo messenger?
Take care of you and have a wonderful day.

Warm Regards

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Me to Girly
I don't use Yahoo. I don't really like spending too much time on Chat. Any problem with emailing? I am not teenager holding smartphone 24 hours a day and chat for 8 hours a day.

The FB was closed, indicated as spams.

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Me to Girly
What happened to your facebook? I tried to reply to you but your account closed? Why?

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Girly to Me
Good morning Imelda, how are you doing today?
Am sorry i didn't notify you before deactivating my temporary account.
That account is my temporary account, my real account was having security issues, so i asked my technicians to open that one for me, yesterday, i got a mail that my real account has been sorted out so i decided to deactivate that one, i will add you on my real and only account now.
Once again, i am sorry i failed to notify you.
In my next email i will explain to you why i enlisted in the army instead of practicing what i studied.
I will send you a request on my real account now.
Have a pleasant day ahead.

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Me to Girly
Nice to hear from you, Girly Soldier. I wonder what are the security issues you had with account. So tell me why you gave up engineering?

And why your son in UK not in USA?? I think most of Americans wants their kids to be educated in USA. My Amrican friend had assignment in China and Japan for few years, and he let his daughters in American School or let them stay in USA for schooling rather than bring to somewhere else. Not really usual I think.

Regards

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Girly to Me
Good day Imelda, how was your night and how are you doing today?
It always feels good to hear from you, i assume it is already noon over there, i hope your day has been fine all the day.
Now about my facebook security issues. There is very little i can say to you because of security reasons also. Being a Military man, we almost all the time have these issues come up depending on your current location of service,the only thing i can say to you is that some person's sometimes try to access our accounts,that is why most of us don't use social media networking or restrict how we use it and how much information we put out there.
Now the issue of my son being in a private school in UK.
I have been on a mission here in Libya since 2012, a few months after the Gaddafi regime and Libyan civil war, before then i was back in the state in my hometown serving,having returned from Afghanistan the previous year. After i lost my wife at child birth some years ago,my sister took custody of my son, she relocated to UK and i had no choice but to let my son go with her because i am mostly not at home. but as of now she has some health related problems, so i had to put my son in a private secured school. i hope that answers your question.
How is work today and how is everyone around you?
I find myself telling you things about me, it would be lovely to know more about you also. .
I also would like to see some of your photos, as you do not have any on your facebook profile showing you.
I was suppose to tell you why i enlisted in the army instead of practicing what i studied, but i will wait for you next mail first
Hope to have a mail from you when i come back from Patrol with my troops.
Do have a pleasant day today Bye

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Me to Girly
Thank you for response. SNS is very personal thing I believe. Not quite sure what makes problem with Facebook or other social media?? I mean soldiers using their ranks and uniforms in the profile are stupid I think. They expose what they are, then someone want to search personal information may be really interested. But again, a personal facebook gives what to the terrorists or spies?? If I am a Russian or Chinese spy, I don't think use Facebook to find soldiers are useful, You know, if you search the name of Army generals, you will find several Facebook accounts under same person name, and I heard these guys are impersonators, making friend with women, they are pervs. I am sure terrorists and spies looking for US military will find these pervs and they get nothing from pervs.

Thanks for telling me about your son and your sister. What is the name of your son? Sorry to know about your sister not in good health but why she is back in US without your son? I think your son could be back in US so that he can be taken cared by other relatives??

OK telling about myself, I am from Borneo, my father is Dayak, native of Borneo and my mother is Chinese Malaysian. I was raised in Sibu and working in Kuala Lumpur now, but have been worked in Arizona and San Jose until February this year. I will move to Tokyo Japan for my job assignment. My parent currently in Kuching, Sarawak, Malaysia. Although taking my father's ethnicity, I am more like Chinese than natives, as I went to Chinese school and university in English, and work area mostly in Chinese speaking area. I have happy life, parents and relatives and friends in good health, except for late fiance from Beijing passed away before marriage many years ago. Please do not ask me about this... I do not want to talk about his story. This is something I keep in my heart.

Have a nice day, Bye!

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Girly to Me
How are you doing today, hope your day is going on pleasantly?
I read your mail last night but i wasn't able to reply you because i had a short time, i just returned from my night shift about an hour ago.
I find myself always wanting to answer your questions even though sometimes i see no reason why i should in some cases. well as for your first question of what terrorist can get from ones facebook, i have heard of a case where a family member was contacted through an officer's facebook and this let to some death in his family as a payback for being the one who put their leader behind bars.
Like you, i see no reason why i should put up my military pictures on my facebook account, but i do, and i can share with family and friends that i know i can trust.There is so much you people out there don't know about these insurgent groups,if they are after someone, they will not leave any stone unturned until they find him, so therefore they can scavenge all and every means until they get their target.
Jason is his name, my son. and thank you for your kind words about my sister.There is so much about her health issues, but that i wouldn't want to bother myself or you with right now.
It's better for Jason there, he loves it there and am happy he is okay, it doesn't really matter where he is, what matters is that he is in good hands,and i get to read from him everyday and get a report from his school monthly. Jason will be 16 soon, he is not a kid and i know he can take care of himself that is why i am not bothered,it's better to be in school there than to be home with my house keeper.
I am sincerely sorry about your late fiance, and i promise not to ask you anything, atleast, not for now.
Tell me about your job and how much you like the life that you're leaving now, i actually promised to tell you why i left engineering,i will but obviously not in this mail anymore.
Imelda, i would like to see pictures of you, from your description above i am already trying to paint mental pictures of you but that won't do, i believe you have seen some of my photos already, it would be my pleasure to see some of yours too.
Take good care of you and have a pleasant day ahead. I wish you a nice weekend!

Warm regards

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Me to Girly

Thank you for email and answering to my questions. How do you communicate with Jason? Do you call him on phone? Your facebook is unlikely to be like showing your current status to your son.

I can't tell you much about my work, as lots of technical confidentiality and I am not willing to tell in details to people who has no need to know. Sometimes I don't even tell where I travel to, sometimes people can know which vendors or which customers my company deals with if they know where I am visiting. So sorry but I do not tell you much about my work but I really like working. Once I just told my friend in another company that I was going to China few years ago, and she could tell what project I was working. Very sensitive. But you can just believe I am electrical device engineer and working on something to do with device reliability. And I believe my job is really rewarding.

I don't really like my photo, I gained weight these few years, and not look so good. I have uploaded my photo on Facebook profile.

Regards

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Girly to Me
Happy Sunday and a very warm morning greetings to you Imelda.
I hope you had a pleasant night rest and you are doing great today?
Seems like you always ask questions but you don't like answering questions when you are asked.
Yet again i will answer this one because it isn't sensitive, i communicate with Jason through email.
We are not allowed to use mobile telephoning system when on missions, but if the need arises it can be arranged for us to communicate with family through our secured connections.
But i make sure i write him everyday and he does also.
You are beautiful Imelda, i saw your picture on facebook, you don't look like you've gained too much weight.
Now time for me to ask you a few questions.
How old are you?
What are your likes and dislikes?
What are your dreams and aspirations in life?
I need answers to the above questions then in my next mail i will tell you why i enlisted in the army instead of practicing what i studied.
Have a pleasant day out there today and take good care of yourself.

Warm Regards

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Me to Girly
Hi Girly Soldier

Thanks for email and answering to my questions. Sorry but for my work related, I really want to keep confidential so I do not tell you in detail. Electrical devices quality and reliability engineering. That's all I can tell.

Well, regarding to age, I do not like people asking about age. That is really offending. Does it matter? I do not care about ages.
My likes and dislikes? In terms of what? Regarding to foods, I like spicy foods.
My dreams and aspirations in my life? I want to be good leader in my work. I believe women should take more leading positions in many technical industries. How about you? What is your goal right now?

Regards

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Girly to Me
Good day Imelda.How are you today? I hope you're fine and having a pleasant Monday.
I want you to know that i understand your reasons for not telling me much about your Job, it is really not important for me to know more than i do already,there are also things related to my Job that i can't tell anyone.
About your age, i really don't think it matters but as friends i don't see anything wrong in you telling me, but i will respect your decision.
When i asked about your likes and dislike i was actually asking in terms of individual character and personality,sorry i didn't specify and thank you for telling me your like for foods.
My goal right now is to serve my nation and humanity in my most capable form and capacity and to run for congress next year when i retire from active service.
Imelda, i want you to know that i look forward to reading from you everyday, and if we must be friends, we need to be a little bit open towards each other.
Have a nice day and please write me if you can.
Bye

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Me to Girly
Hi Girly Soldier,
Thanks for understanding regarding to my job information and age. However, talk about general science and technology may be fine with me. Most of my American friends never mind about age, and even a friend who is old lady of late 60's dislikes being treated as 60's, so I never consider her as 60. On the other hand, for Asian friends, by some cases I care about ages when their language and behavior determined by older or younger than oneself.

Well, individual character and personality, what do you mean by that? What do you expect from my answer? There are various characters and various cultures, behaviors depend on backgrounds, so I don' really say like or dislike based on individual personality. However, I expect people take their own responsibilities so that I dislike people who depends on others. I do not help others and I do not expect help from others. How about you?

Regards

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Girly to Me
I think you made a point about the age issue, but my reason for asking wasn't actually to see if you look older or younger than your age and i never would have used it in any conversation, because to me age doesn't really matter.
You do not help others and you do not expect help from others?
that is not fair to say, you didn't create yourself, you didn't put yourself in the position that you are right now,no one knows tomorrow, so therefore it is okay for you to help the people around you. For you to climb,there must be others holding the ladder for you.
I do not know in which context you said what you did but my take in life is that, it is quite better to help people than to be uptight. I have always dedicate a part of my annual salary to helping the less privileged in different organizations across the world and this gives me fulfillment.But then again, everyone can not be thesame.

I am just about to leave my office for my apartment when i saw your mail.
I actually wish we can chat sometime, but that would actually depend greatly on you and your timing.
i am most time of the day at my office except when i have to go on patrol with my troops. if i know when you can have a few minutes, i think i can make out time for us to chat, even if for a few seconds.
You are a career woman, not many of you are out there and i am glad to have you as a friend.
I want to know you more but i lack the questions to ask,am sure hearing from you more often will be great.
Thank you for you time and messages you have sent to me since we met, i am not that social so i hardly get messages, except from my son,a few colleagues and now you.
Thank you once again
Have a lovely night rest.
Bye for now

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Girly to Me
Hi Imelda
I hope you're doing great today.
Sometime ago you asked me why i ditched engineering.
Here is why.
My father left us with our mum when we were just kids,mum was a nurse and she was able to raise us all three kids( my eldest brother, myself and my kid sister) by the grace of God, she provided all we needed and showed us love.
When i was 25, i had a year more to study in the university while my eldest brother was in finals.
My brother was shot while we were coming back from school on a certain day,and he lost his life in my arms right there on the spot.It could have been me. It was a drive by shoot out and we never got to know who killed him.
This was a crime, one of many that happens almost everyday in the US.

That day changed everything about who i am today, it changed our lives forever.
I vowed to fight crime and when i graduated a year later, i enlisted in the army when the police force didn't accept me. I did this because of the love i had for my brother and my family, his death devastated my mum and i think, possibly lead to her death a few years later. It also affected my sister's life because she had to care for my mother while i was away.
I can't elaborate more,but now i hope you understand my reason for not practicing what i studied fully.
I worked back in my country for 5 years under the USACE ( US Army Corps of Engineers)
And till date i somethings get contracts from my government and UN in areas related to what i used to do back then in USACE. So that means i still practice mech engr but not as a proper engr.

I wish you a lovely evening.
Thank for the brief chat, it was refreshing.
Bye

Posted: Sun May 11, 2014 2:18 pm

In April … Imelda’s email frequency decreased. Girly still wants to communicate daily. This makes Imelda feel too bored.

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Girly to Me
Hello Imelda, Good morning, i know it most be noon or evening already over there.
I hope you're fine and doing great today.
Have a great day!

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Me to Girly
Hi Girly Soldier, I hope you are well. Here is evening now. April fool's day evening.
Have a nice day.

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Girly to Me
Good day Imelda.
I hope you are fine and enjoying your weekend.
Have fun dear.
Just dropped by to say hello to you.

Warm Regards

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Girly to Me
Good day Imelda.
How are you doing today?
This is just say hello and also to wish you a nice and pleasant evening.
I wish we could chat for a while today like we did yesterday.
Take care of you and extend my regards to your friends and family

Warm Regards

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Me to Girly
Hi Girly Soldier
Thanks for email. I will be busy with my friends over the long weekends. I wish you have nice weekends.
Bye!!

Communication gap!! Imelda is not teenage girl who wants to be in touch with friends daily.

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Girly to Me
Good day.just thought of you and decided to say hi.
Have a pleasant day.
Bye

5 days no response from Imelda, then Girly emailed;

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Girly to Me
Good day Imelda, hope you are fine and having a pleasant day.
I miss you

After 3 days, Imelda responded.

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Me to Girly
Hi thanks for emails. I have been busy after long weekends last week. The Tomb Sweeping day holidays were great. My friend Angela invited me to dinner with her family, and also met with some old friends, spent really good time eating and drinking.

You miss me?? Really?? Just 1 week not writing, that's not too long I believe. You are like young girl!! I have several friends I do not communicate so frequently but still being good friends!!

I will be busy this weekends, as Angela introduced me some new friends here in Hong Kong.

How's things going on there?

Regards

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Girly to Me
Hello Imelda,
Glad to hear that you are fine, since i didn't hear from you i was a little worried.
you know even if you are always busy, it wouldn't harm you to just take a few second's
to send a hello or a hi to the person that care's and misses you. i am always busy
too but i take the time to mail you always.
you know i am unique in my own special way and as your friend you should not
treat me like the other's, treat me special different from all the others.
And yes i miss you, hope to hear from you son.

Regards

Next day

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Me to Girly
Hi Girly Soldier

You make me feel so burdensome. I should say, I do not have to take a second to greet you if I am busy. Or you are teenage girl or a kid??
If I have to care you daily, maybe I have to leave you ASAP to make myself free. Oh. let me feel free so I can maintain communicating with you. Is that OK?
I feel you are special if you listen to me and let me feel free. If I can't breath, I will run away. If you do not mind if I can't contact you for a month, maybe I can like you more and more.

Regards

Had some FB messages but all logs lost due to Girly’s 2nd FB suspended.
10 days later.

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Girly to Me
Greetings Imelda, i hope you have been fine and everything is alright with you over there?
Ii have been on a mission and far away from my Base hence i haven't been able to contact you as frequently as i used to. i missed reading from you, i think i miss you my friend.
I just read this email you sent me April 14th and laughed for a bit.
I actually want you to feel that way, i want you to see me as a burden, and someone you have to contact and check on everyday like a little girl.
I want to be able to hear from you everyday, i want our friendship to grow and become better than this.
I really don't know why i want this but i think you are a lovable person and someone i would really love to know very well. I know how pressing and time consuming your Job might be but in each day i want you to take a second from whatever you are doing and say hello to me. i hope that i am not asking for too much, if you feel like i am, you can get rid of me as a friend, but i sincerely wish to know you better and become someone that you will never forget.
Have a lovely day my dear friend.
warm regards

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Me to Girly
Hi Girly

Thanks for email. You really give me pressure to send you email. I feel sick now. I do not want to be forced to read and respond to you daily.
Yes, I think of get rid of you because of that pressure. I will try to forget you too.
Good bye and have a nice time there.

Regards

Next day, Girly was expecting Imelda’s email that did not came to his mail box.

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Girly to Me
Hello Imelda, how are you today?
I have been waiting for your mail for the day but ii have't seen any, that is why i am sending you this one right now.
I am not trying to put you under pressure to send me emails everyday,but all am trying to say is it would be great to hear from you everyday and also chat with you.
so yes, i want to be the only one that puts you under such pressure, because i want more from you.
I truly wish and hope you don't end this friendship, i believe it's still in it's early stages.

have a nice day dear and take good care of you.
Waiting for your reply.

3 days later

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Girly to Me
Good day Imelda how are you doing today?
I actually decided not to mail you for couple of days just to see how you will react to that.
Can't you see that i care about you? you think i would want to hear from you everyday just for fun?
You are a very rare kind of person and i cherish your friendship, i want more from this.
Though i know very little about you but i think of you almost all the time.
You are sometime very difficult but that is what i love most about you.
I want us to be good friends Imelda, hence i would love to be the only one can bother you.
I care a lot.
Have a pleasant day and do make sure you write me back.

Warm Regards

Posted: Sun May 11, 2014 2:21 pm

1 week later; in May.

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Me to Girly
I am so busy now, just arrived to Tokyo from Hong Kong and have series of meetings next 3 days. I have been really busy at work and have no time to write to you so frequently. If you are not happy with that, I do not mind if you give up with contacting me. Have a nice day.

By the way you quit facebook? If that is because I did not respond to your message, do not blame me. I was busy and had no time. You really are like little girl.

Good bye.

After 2 days

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Girly to Me
I haven't been able to forget that face i saw on your profile picture, and even before then i was already growing fond of you.
i do care more than i am willing to admit right now, but you are not letting me come as close to you as i would love to.
I want you in my life Imelda, i know you are single, and so am i, i have a son whom i cherish alot , but i need a woman in my life, i need you, i love your personality and as far as i know right now you are a great woman and i would would to know you better, i need you to give me a chance.

Take care of you and have a lovely day.

Next day

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Me to Girly
You ignore how I think and want to push to your desire? I am busy at work and satisfied with my life. I have my own life and not necessarily get into your life. I do not need men to take care of me. I do take care of myself, and do not need you.

To be fair, I would give you chance, you may write email to me but you also should be aware that I may not respond so frequently. You have freedom to write and I have freedom not to write.

Regards

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Girly to Me
How are you today Imelda?
I read your mail and it got the courage to strive harder.
I was happy you said you will give me a chance, but sending email is not all i want to do, i want to be in touch with you fully, i want to be a part of your life, you work hard, you have your own life, so do i, but i need a woman in my life, you don't need me to take care of you i know that, but that doesn't mean that you are contended with your life right now.
give me a chance, give us a chance.We could be more, we can be better together.
No matter how much time it takes, am going to make you my woman, because i rally do like you a lot and would love to have you in my life.
I know it's late already over there so am going to wish you a nice night rest and request that you write me in the morning. since you call me a little girl, make sure you check on me else i will cry out loud.
Sweet dreams my dear

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Me to Girly
Hey little girl

What you mean by you want to be in touch with me fully? You are in Syria and not in Hong Kong. Time zone is different. Very hard to communicate. I prefer meeting face to face. My friend Angela introducing me someone shortly, I can meet him face to face since he is Hong Kong Chinese here in Hong Kong. I do allow you to send me emails, but this will not guarantee any progress in the relationship.
I will not write back to you for a while, busy week starts. I am aggressive and ambitious with my work, and would like to achieve what ever I can do at work. I am satisfied with my current situation at work.

Bye

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