Ben Dan

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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2014 4:01 pm

The lad uses Pictures stolen from British journalist Mark-Williams Thomas
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Williams-Thomas

He said he is in UK but IP was Nigeria.

Header Analysis Quick Report
Originating IP: 41.71.178.69
Originating ISP: Visafone
City: Lagos
Country of Origin: Nigeria

He is so persistent and my Character Imelda is Emi clone, therefore dislike this kind of guy. Most of conversation just kicking him instead of progressing love romance. But even though Imelda resists, he keep on saying loving her. His name on Facebook was Daniel. Let’s name him Ben Dan, means idiot in Chinese.

Facebook Chat (1)

Quote:

Ben Dan
hello dear

Imelda
Ah,, sorry I just clicked FB suggested. I am sure I do not know you. Sorry!!
I think one of my friend have lots of friends and Facebook is suggesting these to me ...

Ben Dan
okay dear,can we know our selves more

Imelda
My name is Imelda from Malaysia but will be moving to Hong Kong shortly. How about you? You are in UK?

Ben Dan
i live in London for many years now, I am an independent business man, i am a sales marketer, i am into buying and selling of copper and cable wires for telecommunication company and industrial material i work inside and outside of London, am 51years, a widower, i have one daughter, Sonia, I am loyal, responsible, active, caring, sharing, kindhearted, warm, accommodating, compassionate, tolerant, outgoing, welcoming to people generally, I am also a man with fear of God, tell me more about your friend.

Imelda
I am an engineer, working at an electronic device company in Asian region. That's why I travel around in Asia. I am currently work as quality and reliability engineer. Which part of London are you in?

Ben Dan
machester ,and you

Imelda
Now in Kuala Lumpur but soon move to Hong Kong.

Ben Dan
okay dear,you are beautiful

Imelda
You are kidding.

Ben Dan
am serious
are you married

Imelda
Why?

Ben Dan
just want to know
are you

Imelda
It it important?

Ben Dan
yea very important to me

Imelda
Just having friends all over the world regardless of gender, not really interested to marital status, actually.
Why so important for you?

Ben Dan
because i am a widower and i need a woman to call my love

Imelda
Give me a break!! I just met you online, just clicked add friend, then talk about love? You must be kidding!!

Ben Dan
i am talking about love because i believe in love

Imelda
hmmm, something I do not understand ... love is something cultivated by long time ... not instantly online.

Ben Dan
okay dear,please i will be back,my daughter needs me now

Imelda
You can send me email to [email protected]
I don't really like taking too much time on chat.

Ben Dan
okay dear

Ben Dan
hello dear

Imelda
Ah, Hi.
Ben Dan
am fine and you

Imelda
Good.
How is your daughter?

Ben Dan
she is fine
do you have chirdren

Imelda
Why?
You are too quick. Now asking whether I have kids or not??? Ah give me a break!! I did not mean to contact you as something like dating sites. Just followed Facebook suggestion.

Ben Dan
my dear calm down
i am getting to know you

Imelda
Why you think I am a candidate for your future wife? So strange. Just met you today online and facebook is not matching site. Why you expect such things?

Ben Dan
why are you talking this way,is it a crime to know more about you

Imelda
No, but you are so persistent.
If you think I am too rude, you can disconnect me, it won't hurt me actually.

Ben Dan
maybe that is because i have lived three years of my life been single

Imelda

Married or have kids or something, these kind of questions are annoying for person not looking for mates.

Ben Dan
i will never disconnect you,because you are an angel

Imelda
I am not an angel.

Ben Dan
maybe you dont know,but you are

Imelda
Why?
Angels are males, you know?

Ben Dan
hahahahahaha
there is female too

Imelda
Why? How do you know female angels exists?

Ben Dan
my dear can you calm down and lets make something out of this chat

Imelda
OK, then I do not tell you I am married or not, but I do not have kids and do not like kids.

Ben Dan
you amazed me,why dont you like kids

Imelda
Annoying. Just looking at someone else's kids, OK with me but I don't want any.
Ben Dan
can i know why
because everyone want to have a kid

Imelda
Not everyone want to have kid or want to marry you know? Many likes Freedom of singleness and freedom of being childless couples.

Ben Dan
that is strange to me
so were are you now

Imelda
That is normal to me.
In Kuala Lumpur now.
But fly to Hong Kong tomorrow.

Ben Dan
okay dear,i will make you like children
lol

Imelda
I do not want others to force me change my thoughts. I hate being forced.

Ben Dan
am not forcing you,am going to do it through love

Imelda
you are kidding!!

Ben Dan
but serious

Imelda
I hate conservative people.

Ben Dan
hahahahahahaha

Imelda
I have my own thinking and I have my own life.

Ben Dan
why
you are difficult

Imelda
So what?

Ben Dan
just want you to be calm and lets see what this has for us

Imelda
I am calm. I am not emotional.
I do not want to spend too much time on chat. Do you have email address?
You can send me email if you like.
[email protected]

Ben Dan
i already sent you email

Imelda
OK, I will take a look, thanks.

Ben Dan
ok,are you going offline?

Imelda
Who is Kelvin Banana?

Ben Dan
that is my guys name way back in school

Imelda
I see. OK thanks. Bye for now.

Ben Dan
ok dear,going to miss u

Imelda
I don't miss you. I am being busy, Need to pack my things.

Ben Dan
okay dear,save journey
lets keep in touch

Facebook Chat (2) same day evening

Quote:

Ben Dan
my dear i am admiring your photos now

Imelda
I just came online to check something. I do not have time to chat.

Facebook Chat (3) Next day

Quote:

Ben Dan
okay dear,how are you doing

Imelda
Hi, I am fine. thanks. How are you.

Ben Dan
i am fine too,i missed our chat

Facebook Chat (4) April Fool’s day

Quote:

Ben Dan
hello

Ben Dan
hello dear,how are you doing and how is work going with you,my dear ever since we chated that very first day,your taught has dominated my heart,and i think i am feeling love for you.my daughter will love you too
you are so beautiful and i want you in my world

Imelda
Ah, give me a break. You are too quick to move. I am not that sort of person.

Ben Dan
my dear i am sorry if i am too fast,just that your beauty is driving me crazy and i feel real love for you already,my dear lets give this a chance,it could work out for us and make us man and wife.how is your day going my dear

Imelda
I can't feel love to person just met few days ago.
I do not need man to support me. I am independent.

Ben Dan
my dear love is so strong,is like a wind,it could blew you to any where,my dear the wind of love has blew me to you,please accept me

Imelda
I have my own will and you can not force me. I am free as an eagle. I really do not understand you.

Ben Dan
my dear i am not forcing you,i am free too as an eagle,all i want is true love from you

Facebook Chat (5) Next day morning

Quote:

Ben Dan
hello

Imelda
I told you I do not like spending time on chat. I am busy working person, not school kids. And I can not love you so quick. I do not keep up with your pace of growing love. If you keep on like that, I will block you.

Ben Dan
why are you talking this way

Imelda
Because you are persistent and annoying.

Ben Dan
what makes you feel i am annoying,is loving you a crime

Imelda
I just mistakenly clicked facebook suggested, you have right to remove me. Go ahead.

Ben Dan
hahahaha,i cant do that you know why

Imelda
Just met few days before and already talk about love, that is not normal.
Now I am at work, 8:40 here in HK and have no time to waste.

Ben Dan
my dear calm your down
how are you doing and how is work going

Imelda
Do not bother me!! I am at work now!!!

Ben Dan
okay
we will chat when you close from work

Imelda
i do not like chat, that is waste of time!! Now let me concentrate to work!!!

Ben Dan
ok dear

Facebook Chat (6) Next day

Quote:

Ben Dan
hello
hello how are you doing today

Imelda
At work. Do not bother me!! bye.

Ben Dan
why are you always hrd on me
is it a crime to be in love with you

Imelda
Work hour now. Do not disturb. I turn off my cell!!!!

Ben Dan
okay dear,hope to chat with you later,i am in my office now
my dear,There's no special reason for this message... I just wanna steal a single moment out of your busy life and hope I can make you smile and say:
I miss you!

Imelda
I DO NOT MISS YOU!!
NO TIME TO WASTE WITH YOU ACTUALLY.

Facebook Chat (7) Next day

Quote:

Ben Dan
why do you think i am wasting my time

Imelda
I am not saying YOU are wasting your time. I Do Not want waste MY TIME. I will be busy this coming long weekends for private matters with my friends. Before that, I need to complete my works. No spare time I have for you who is not in my priority list.

Ben Dan
okay dear,so can you give me the chance to know you more

Imelda
why?

Ben Dan
because i am inlove with you already

Imelda
I am not.

Ben Dan
my dear can i just know you first

Imelda
What if I say NO.

Ben Dan
then i will plead with you

Imelda
Oh just leave me alone. I will be busy this weekends.
My friend came back to HK and we are having nice party tomorrow.

Ben Dan
we all are busy but share time with our love once

Imelda
I have my priority with people I deal with. You are not high priority.

Ben Dan
hahahahahha
that is because you dont know me yet

Imelda
Why should I know you?

Ben Dan
because i am of high personaliy
and i am inlove with you

Imelda
Told you, I am not in love with you and my girlfriend wants to chat. Bye.

Ben Dan
who is your girlfriend

Imelda
why should I tell you??

Ben Dan
because i and my daughter will you to be part of my life

Imelda
I am not part of your life and I have my own life. Now I am having serious discussion with my girl friend. I do not want to be disturbed. I love her.

Ben Dan
okay dear,always remember i love you

Imelda
I do not love you, OK? And I have my Girl Friend in USA.

Ben Dan
if loving you is not a crime,then i must love you

Imelda
You ignore my will. I hate you.
Loving is not crime, but I have my right to say NO.

Ben Dan
if you hate me,always remember before 2 people will say they love you,i am the first

Imelda
NO. My girl friend loves me. OK? And I love her.

Ben Dan
he cant marry you and make you a mother

Imelda
I do not need kids. Not "he", "SHE"

Ben Dan
then you need true love from a man like me

Imelda
I have right to do my own decision. NO

Ben Dan
my dear what is wrong

Imelda
I AM NOT YOUR DEAR.

Ben Dan
i find you as one

Imelda
More you say you love me, more will hate you. I have my free will.

Ben Dan
my dear if you hate me,always remember i love you

Imelda
headache.

Ben Dan
my dear no headache,i am telling you the truth

Imelda
No matter you say truth or not, I am really annoyed.

Ben Dan
you annoyed because i find love in you?

Imelda
YES. BECAUSE I HAVE MY WILL AND I DO NOT WANT TO BE DISTURBED.

Ben Dan
loving you is no disturbance

Imelda
I FEEL DISTURBED.
You ignore how I feel. You are not good guy. I hate you.

Ben Dan
my is because you have not allow me into your life,i will treat you right

Imelda
I have my life and I have my own choices.

Ben Dan
i feel how you feel but i cant hide my feelings for you

Imelda
vomitting!

Ben Dan
for my love?

Imelda
Disgusting,

Then Ben Dan went off line.

Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2014 3:54 am

2nd round, via email.
The lad facebook was deleted, most likely due to sending too much spam to multiple people. 2nd facebook appeared but this one also deleted. But fortunately the lad got Imelda's email address.

Quote:

Ben Dan to me
hello dear,here i am,is me ben dan

Quote:

me to Ben Dan

Hi thanks for email. How are you and how is your daughter. I am busy at work no time to chat with you.

Quote:

Ben Dan to me
ok dear,always take good care of your self for me and sonia

Quote:

me to Ben Dan

Why should I take care of myself for you and Sonia? I take care of myself for my own self. I am not dedicated to you. So annoying and disgusting.

Quote:

Ben Dan to me
am so sorry dear,you really have to calm down and lets talk about this,i feel love for you dear

Quote:

me to Ben Dan

I become hating you more and more when you talk about love.
You only think about yourself and not thinking of how I feel. You are so persistent and selfish.
It is your freedom to say you love me, but I have my freedom to reject you as well.
I can not love a person just met online recently and being sticky like stalker.
If you do not contact me any more, perhaps I would like you more.
I am always calm, not being hot. But I have right to say what I want to say.

I thought he gave up but came back again after 3 weeks. This Nigerian is so persistent. My character keep on rejecting him, but still bounce back. Either instructed by oga, or person behind screen had changed.

Quote:

Ben Dan to me
why are you been hard on me

Quote:

me to Ben Dan

I thought you already gave up.
If you think I am so hard on you, why don't you just go away. It won't hurt you if you do not contact me any more. I will continuously horrible to you because I hate you very much. GO AWAY!!

Quote:

Ben Dan to me
i never gave up,i was on a business trip,so i was not chanced to come online,why did you hate me,life is too short to love and here you are talking of hatred,my dear your love is all i ask for for

Quote:

me to Ben Dan

OK, then I allow you sending me these rubbish love mails. Your emails will be automatically thrown into spam folder and not being read. Please write as much as you like. I will not read at all but not say go away either. This would clear your desire of sending me these spams and my will if not reading these spams, OK? Hate you so much!!!

Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2014 5:05 pm

I love your baits. I can't believe how many you can string along while being so mean to them! You've have a really good style!

Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2014 1:33 pm

SBAH thanks. I like this kind of bait but doing this never reach to piggies or MTCN hells Razz

This lad is especially persistent and really fun to reject his love love talk. I wish if I could do something like Ewok's Shona doing to kick these brats.