4lena is not going to like my mother

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Hello I'm New here! Joined: 04 Apr 2014 Posts: 3

Hi, i am kind of new here. A couple of days ago, i had a lad in my email, who said he found my profile on a datingsite. Ow boy, bad idea, as my mother is a real bitch....

it started with this:

Salut!
I loved your profile. You seemed very interesting person. I wanted to write to you to get to know you better. The most important thing for me is that you have in mind and what you value in life. I 4lena. I m in Russia . I m 30 years old. I want to create a serious and strong relationship a man who wants to have a family. I have no husband. I m just missing in my life. I graduate with excellent work. I miss only lover. I gave you an idea about myself. Now everything depends on you, answer me or not. You will not lose anything if you try! I think we should use this chance to be happy.
I ll tell you about myself and about my plans. I m waiting for your letter. Have a nice day.
4lena

Me:

Hi 4lena,
how are you? What a nice picture. Tell me about your plans! Where do you live?

Greetz,

willemalexander (the name of our dutch king and he will find out that his mother will be a very sadistic bitch)

she:

Hi my new friend !
Thank you for your letter. I am very glad that you decided to answer
me . I'm also very glad that I can write you a letter . I'm sorry that
you did not answer for a long time , I was busy working . I do not
have a computer at home and to write you a letter , I have to go to an
internet cafe . Now I have free time and I can tell you more about
myself . Very well, now that we 're friends . I hope you do not mind
to be my friend ? Now a little about me : My name is 4lena. I'm 30
years old . I live in Pavlovo, it Nizegorodskayz region of Russia.
Currently engaged in the search for happiness in his personal life
over the Internet. Because in real life I have had several bad
experiences building relationships. Men around me were not right for
me. They just do not want a serious relationship . I really want to
create a warm married couple to have a child to his beloved man .
There are more reasons why I do not want to marry a Russian man . A
lot of Russian men drink alcohol in large quantities, have no respect
for women who do not treat women seriously afraid of responsibility .
It does not suit me . I want to find a man who will love me ,
children, respect and with understanding . I will be very glad if you
find yourself in such a man.
At the moment I work at school . I work as a teacher and teach
children English . I love children and I enjoy my job . My work is not
too rich . But I'm not complaining about that . I can financially
provide for themselves and help their parents . My father and my
mother did not work . They are on the state maintenance ( retired) .
The state pays my parents some money in a month, to which they must
live . I live with my parents in a two-bedroom apartment. I can not
afford to live separately from their parents , but since I do not have
a man , I do not want to . I'd be bored to live alone . Relationships
with parents are very good. We understand each other very well. I
always listen to the opinion of my parents, since they are very wise
people . I love them! The family I'm alone. Unfortunately I have no
brother, no sister. But I always wanted to have an older brother . To
solving acquainted with a man from another country , I approached very
seriously. I understand that there are differences in culture,
language . It does not scare me. I know well enough English. I can
read, understand , speak your language. I studied foreign languages
when I was at university . I graduated , and I can teach a foreign
language or a translator . I always wanted to travel the country , but
so far have not been anywhere .
I think you are very much interested in where I took your email
address ! It all started with the fact that I went to the dating
agency . I said I want to meet a man from abroad. Agency called " Two
Hearts ." Agency workers immediately told me that it would be
difficult. Currently , in Russia , a lot of scams that deceive men
from abroad. And all these men do not believe Russian women. But I
said that difficulties do not scare me and I'm ready to take a chance
and write you . I was given a lot of pictures. I chose a long time and
has chosen you. For a fee, they gave me your e-mail. So I decided to
write to you . I was given only your email address . I wanted to get
your picture I looked , but I was told that they could not give it. It
scared me a bit and I think that your e-mail can not be mined legally.
But then I thought , what's the difference as I was able to get your
e-mail. I just want to find her man. Now I'm really glad you told me .
The age difference is not me as scary. I think that the main thing in
a person - the soul , the inner world . Do you agree? The rest is not
very important ! I'm ready to radically change your life and start a
new life . Changes do not scare me . I also understand that there is a
problem in the fact that we live far apart . I am aware of all the
difficulties. I have long been putting off a small amount of money. I
think it will help me to make an appointment with a man with whom
relations will develop . But talking about it is still very early . I
think you understand what I'm a man and my purpose in life. If I'm
interested in you , it gives me great pleasure will wait for your
answer. I told him about himself . Now I want to learn more about you
and your life. Tell me . I'm curious to know all about you .
PS. I would like to see your new photos !
4lena ...

Ok, i've never told her my age, but she's convinced that i'm an old man?? Never shared photo's and never had a profile on a datingsite, so i'm vgery sure this is gonna be a scam. So i responded and gave her a warning for my sadisitic mother up front....

me:

Hi 4lena,

Thank you for you letter. It was a lot to read and i've seen you've put a load of work in it! I can't remember beeing a member of the datingsite "two hearts", but it's possible, as i've been a member of a lot of different datingsites. I've been looking for the right woman for a long time, just wasn't able to meet her yet. Maybe this has something to do with my mother, as i'm still living in her house. She doesn't allow me to move out, because i will lose my inheritance if i do. I don't want to brag about it, but she will leave me a lot of money when she dies. However, until now, she's managed to scare away all my potential longlasting relationships. If we would come together, you will have to endure a lot of sadistic jokes from her. Just don't let her get into your mind and you will be ok. She's pretty old already and has some problems with her health. I do take care of her, as she won't allow any nurse to take care of her. It's a lot of work and because of this, i don't have a normal job. I hope this is not a problem for you! I'm not like the russian men you've met before. I don't drink and respect all women. I will sent you my photo's next time, as my own computer is at the repairshop now. I had a virus on it and it had to be repaired. I hope they can save my photo's too, because there were a lot of them on that pc.

I hope to hear from you soon,

with love,

willemalexander

This is my first bait. So let's see if ending my virginity is gonna be a nice experience.... for me, not for the lad Very Happy

Master of Master Baiters Joined: 11 Jan 2014 Posts: 688

Hya. When you say "in your email," is this an email connected to your real life? If so, may I suggest that you drop all contact with the scammer. Have a read of the stickies on here (At the top of the boards.) Sign up for a mentor, they are happy to help. Make yourself an account or three with no connection to your real life and enjoy! Everyone here will do their utmost to make your baits successful and SAFE!

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

Welcome to the board and I second the advice given above. You could always pick him up again with your new alter ego and address. Boris has spammed that to many so he isn't going to check.

There are many links for new users in this thread http://forum.419eater.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=237673 and a mentor link in my sig line

I lost my virginity to a vlad also. I hope you enjoy your time in our little stomach turning corner of the forum.

419Eater is my life Joined: 23 Jan 2014 Posts: 295

^^^ What they said...
And don't be too disappointed if you don't get far with this vlad. They are typically tough to get off script. Have a look at some of NV's thread, he has a way of making them insane Smile

You can also try http://www.fishmeetfish.com/ It's a romance scammer gold mine.

Don't hesitate to ask for advice here, there is always someone willing to help out...

And welcome to Eater!

Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2014 10:19 am

Welcome to Eater and our own corner of scammer hell! As Ewok suggested, if you're baiting from your real life account, you should really drop this. It is not safe to let a scammer access any of your RL information. Open a gmail account and take a hack at Fat Boris from another Character.

Vlad bashing is one of baiting's more fun aspects. You may want to read the stickies in Main and apply for a mentor. They have lots of good information and can help you through rough spots

Hello I'm New here! Joined: 04 Apr 2014 Posts: 3

Thanks for the tips, my fellow baiters. No worries, i use that emailaccount for my pokerrelated stuff. It's not my real name and is in no way connected to my real life. Funny thing is, when the lads are googling that name, they'll see it's a winning onlinepokerplayer. Perfect to drive em nuts with money that will never arrive in their accounts. Laughing

Hello I'm New here! Joined: 04 Apr 2014 Posts: 3

Got myself a mentor btw. Laughing

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