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Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 2:01 pm

Gina was contacted by Uchechukwu Emmanuel Chinetu Iroko.

Started a few days ago. Nigerian male who loves taking selfies !

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Hi you are so fine nd cool. I wish I could get to know more about you

I am far too old for you ! Thank you for the compliments though... every lady likes a compliment.

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Hi Gina, You ar still look so young and sexy to me, well, age does not really matter to me as all I wanted is true love and lasting relationship with someone who's nice and cool like you
Sorry : does age matter to you, I m very interested in you
Cheers

Well, what can I say.... you are very kind. Thank You.... we are many years and miles apart ! I am sure there are lovely ladies where you are? But, I am flattered, you are a very good looking man !

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Oh thanks a lot for your compliment dear, honestly I m tired with ladies here in nigeria, my died of car accident and since then ihave never been lucky with the women here, So I m looking for far distance or anyone that will genuinely accepts me I am now and age does not really matter to me, I think you ar cool from the first rime I set my eyes on you and I love you photo too. I will be very glad to know more about a beautiful lady like you. what kind of man will be you looking for

I prefer honesty above all things. I just want a nice man who I can love completely.

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I can't stop looking at your pretty face.You ar a beautiful woman and I wish I could see more about you

Well... I am a little shy.. it took me a long time to even get these two taken.... when I joined Facebook I realised that I had no pictures so a friend took a couple ! I am not one for having lots of pictures all over.

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But you ar beautiful to me and I will be glad to see more of you

Well.. maybe sometime. I think having lots of photos is a young thing. I have never in my life taken a 'selfie' and can't understand why people take pictures of themselves !

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Awww really? Its just for people to recognize you and to know how you look

Each to their own. It's not me ! What you are if far more important than how you look. A beautiful face can hide an ugly person inside.

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But instead of puting them on facebook you can just sent them to me here on chat
Wooow
You ar very right dear

But I don't like taking them. It's not just for on here. I genuinely don't like taking pictures and I won't take any of myself !

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Hmmm, what if I want to see more of you

Then that is sad.... I will take when am ready.... but not to order.
You see... you can take lots of pictures... your face is always the same !
So it doesn't look so different from a different angle !

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Oh yeah you are right, I m not ordering you

I don't take orders ... you will learn I just do what I want to do.
Being on my own so long I think. I just do what I want to do !

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Just saying, I prefare seeing you face to face than just pictures. I know but I m interested in you
Cus I like you

Can't magic away the miles... you are a bit too far away

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I like traveling and I can travel to your place if we feel the same way about each other

Maybe eventually but it is too soon to say yet. I have only met you. I can't say I would meet someone after only a short while chatting. Tell me a little about you? What work do you do?

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I use to work with the construction here as a labor but currently their work is slow so I stopped but I still want to further my education too. How about you???

I don't work anymore. I have enough for what I need. My own house and money. I live well.

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Oh that's cool
I don't have a good educational background that's why I still wish to study so that I can be able to work in the better places or companies

So the chat went on him thinking he is cool and romantic and Gina trying not to yawn !

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And I m looking forward for more good things between us
Do you have cell
Can you call when you ar on tomorrow??my number is +2348142675337

Where I live cell coverage is useless.... I live in the middle of three mountains.Beautiful but not good for technology !

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I bet you will look more beautiful than that in real appearance. I want to see more because I really like what I am seeing
You look so strong fresh sexy and young also to me. I want to be part of you dear

I don't know how that can be you know.

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I have been thinking about you since morning after our chat last night. I believe we can work things out together cause I m cool and very caring for someone I really like

(humble as well)
Ok... unless you have wings and can fly to Scotland... that will be hard. you could share my wine with me.

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Yeah and we going to have a lot of fun together. I wish you could come over here too. Just for a visit
I will be so glad to have you here with me then we can now go back to your country together

No. I never intend to visit Nigeria. Too hot and it doesn't sound a good place to be.

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No baby, its a good place to be and their ar some European asian and americans working here
And its not too hot like you think
Its a cool country but not too cold

I know that. But it is a place I would not go to.... sorry. I know it is your home. But I don't really want to go there.

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Its ok, that means you don't like me. And you don't want me around you

I didn't say anything about you. I just said it wasn't a place I would go to.

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Baby, but its ok,just for few weeks and you can go back with me

go back with you?

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go back with you? I mean go back to your country with you
And live together with you

But you would have to buy plane ticket.
or do you expect me to buy for you? You told me you do not work

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We can work it out if you really care about me

I have known you how long?? Two days?? It is not possible to care about someone in that way in a couple of days.

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Honestly I like you so much too and the past 2 days that we met I have been seriously thinking about and I also promise never to complicate your life

So we said a fond goodnight. I will talk with him tonight... then a little bird whispered in my ear about some complications..... over to Kaede!

Wasn't keen on him really.... but now I am going to enjoy him as long as I can.

Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 2:46 pm

So he came to Masami too!! But since Masami is Gina’s friend, she is reluctant about the guy who came and praise her profile.

His name is so funny, and wants to talk even though I am so harsh to him. I will kick him and hit him a lot!!

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You look cool and so beautiful, I love your photos and I wish to know more about you
Where ar you from?

You are Gina's boy friend, aren't you? What do you want?

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Hi yes she's mine nd I love her
I m sorry about the message, it was a mistake
Hope you are doing great?

Looks like you are sending similar messages to multiple women, aren't you? I am not interested. I will talk to Gina if you continue that way!!

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I promise I won't continue that way
And I m not sending similar messages to people
Pls I told its a mistake and I have sent that message to you before I met Gina
Pls don't think like that...ok

I do not like such excuses. GO AWAY!

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Ok thanks a lot
You can go ahead and destroy our relationship if that's what will make you happy
The choice is yours to make but I'm really sorry for everything if its all my fault

I am not clear about what you mean "destroy our relationship." I do not even know you and just saw you comment to Gina.
I am not obliged to be friend with you.

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You hate me

what you mean? I do not know you and have no reason to accept you.

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And I did nothing bad to you, just see your photos and think that you ar a nice person but now you ar getting me wrong
You ar making me feel bad about myself because I sent you a message

So what? What you really want?

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Well I like you and I want be friend with but you don't want me and you said you ar going to tell Gina
And you know its not fair cus if I don't really like you I won't inbox a message

Your first message gave me bad impression and I do not assume that was just a mistake. You are sending such message to multiple women. You just want to pickup any women. I am not interested.

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I m sorry
But I swear, You are the only person I sent that message to

But you are Gina's boy friend, right? Yet want another woman? Sure? I told you I am not interested and I do not want to interrupt my good friend's relationship.

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Oh you get me wrong, I just want to be friend with you cus I like your pix that's all

I do not want to be friend with someone just came because liked my photo. Nothing common to talk with you then.

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Hmmm ok, you ar just ignoring me

I do not see any reason to accept you as friend, understand? I have right to reject you, haven't I? I have my own choices and conscience.

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Yeah you are very right

And I do not see any common topics with you if you are just interested to my photo.

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Have you talked to Gina today?

Why?

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I have been checking on her online and haven't seen her today

I do not chat with her online. Usually email.

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Oh ok, I don't have her email and she never told me I can reach her through email

I do not have time to continue chat with you. I go now. Bye and you do not have to message me again. thanks for your time. Hope you can reach her soon.

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I like your name
Thanks too for your time

Bye. No more chat, OK?

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Don't know what to say, can I just check on you sometimes
Just to say hi and know how you ar doing

If Gina say OK.
And I am sure NO. and I am not interested to you.
Now I really have to go. Here is evening and I want to watch video.

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Why are you avoiding me?
Is it because I like you

Masami is already offline, watching Animation video she missed last week :p

Posted: Sat Feb 21, 2015 3:18 pm

I won't write out all the dialogue from last night. Uche isn't the best at conversation and I believe him when he says he isn't very educated.

But, basically I said that I thought he was sweet. Telling Marcie how much he loved me and asking her to tell me. He did ask what she said about him and I told him how Marcie and I had met and she was a good friend.

So, he now thinks Marcie told me nothing about him liking her, just about her telling me how much Uche loves little old me. I asked Marcie to send him a Friend Request because Gina would love her friends to be friends ! Aren't I nice. As if Marcie and Uche would do anything behind my back and lie to me !

...........watch this space !

Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2015 10:38 am

Whilst offline he left me this message

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Hello baby, I m sorry to left you before, my internet has been so bad and I couldn't reach you anymore, You said you have a man friend who is just good friend but I want to have only you alone in my life because I m very interested in you and I would love to spend the rest of my life together with you as my wife

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have been okay, just been thinking about you

Well you have to do more than think of me all day. You must go places and do things.

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Oh yeah

Yes.... thinking of me all day is very boring.

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Also went to visit a friend and we watched chelsea and manchester united match together
Sorry, my internet is slow

what was the score in the football?

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Its 2 1 man u
And chelsea 1 1 against burnley. Man u loss today

well recovered. Chelsea and Man U didn't play each other.
That's ok.... I won't be saying no to Max yet. BUT... I am an adult woman and I cannot commit to being with a man so young I don't know very well. As for being your wife. No, That won't be happening. .. well, not something I could even think about yet. You are not working in Nigeria and I am a widow in Scotland. Those things will be hard to bring together.
I am a woman of 58 and I am adult in my thinking.
I need to know you more before i could possibly commit anything.

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Baby feel free to ask me anything you want to know about me
I can never hide anything about me from you

Ok I need to think what to ask you. I don't know you. How on earth can you insult me by saying you want me to marry you.

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Sorry baby, I don't mean to insult you, I really care about you so much and something tells me that you are mine
And since I met you I have been thinking about you always

I am not stupid. I am a woman who has lived a long time and know everything there is to know. I don't know you, you don't know me. There is decades between us.
How about if I said to you came here?

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I wish to be with you always but you know my situation at the moment
I wish to be with you forever if you give me the opportunity. Honestly I don't know what to do now
My heart tells me.
I m sorry but that's how I feel about you
I really like you just the way you are

Ok... what would you do if I gave you the opportunity?

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I will be the happiest man on earth and I love and cherish you forever

I want you to say what you will do? Don't say empty words. What will you do about it?

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I will always love you take care of you and always make you happ

How long before we can be together?
Words words words. No good.
How can you always make me happy.

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I will like us to be together forever
Will have to know things that makes you happy

you see.... there ! You don't even know the things that make me happy. Don't you think we should now things about each other before talking about 'wife'.You are the one doing all the love words. You tell me what we do?

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I wish you could come over here baby

Why should I? It's you wants to marry me, I haven't ever said those words.
You want me to come there so I can bring you back with me?

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I m sorry if you don't like me or feel anything about me. Its because I want to be with you and I want to have you next to me. Ok you don't want me to be with you?

You see the problem I have. Very early you said you wanted me to go there and that I should bring you back here..... I would work it out if I cared for you.
Isn't that what you said? Meaning if I cared for you I would pay for you

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I m sorry about what I said.... I don't mean to say anything like that. But its because I don't have the money to come over there now to be with you that's why I wanted you to come
I want you

You have chosen the worst person to say sweet words to and say I will melt in your arms.
But you would be happy for me to pay for you?

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Don't worry about that. I don't want anything that will cause a problem between us.I said I will like to know more about you but you haven't told me

You haven't asked anything. I just want you to see your words last night made my angry and I do NOT want
you to think I am a desperate rich widow that will take any man.You are young and you need to think. I am NOT a desperate woman who needs a man to live.

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I meant to say or do anything that will make you angry with me
How can you say this to me. I m really sorry but I won't be happy to share you with another man
Sorry if that gets you angry.

You aren't sharing me because you don't have me.

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But I want to have you I swear

Maybe you do. Then make me want you. I don't take orders from anyone. Especially not someone I have just talked to 3 days. Start now then. Talk to me. let us be friends and see where it goes? Don't tell me what I can and can't do. Yes, I have a sex friend.
I like honestly... total honesty and respect. Tell me about your life and what you are trying to do to get work and money.
I hate being told what to do.I hate people wanting my money.Lots of people have tried....
I hate people who tell lies.
I like men with ambition.

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Well, I m searching for job now but they told me to give them sometime and I also want to study so that I will have a good educational background to be able to work in a better position and be able to take care of my family and myself. you need to have a degree to be able to work in some
Or you have contact with someone there. I m a man of myself, I take care of myself pay my bills and I use to work before, just lost my job

So.. let us get to know each other..... where do you live?
You don't have money but you pay rent and bills? where does the money come from?

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I told you I use to. Work before with a construction company as a labor

That must not have given you much money. Do you live with family or in a house on your own?
Tell me about your life.....

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I live in lagos nigeria alone but sometimes my brother comes over to stay. I m the last out of 5 children, lost my dad when I was 3 years old.I m very good to my mother and she calls me all the time and I call her too. She's in another state in the family house. always visit her when I have money.

What happens when you run out of money.
how will you pay your bills?

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Sometimes I owe or I ask my brother if has have he will assist me. I work last 3 months ago

You see that worries me. You are happy for me to come there and pay for you.... 'it can be worked out if you care for me?.... You just assume I am happy to buy you. You can't fall in love in a day. Love is equal.
You know... the love talk... the don't have friends talk. the wanting me to pay for you talk.

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Sorry can we forget about that now. I don't wish to be collecting money from you, I m suppose to be taking care of you if I am that position. Here in africa we do take care of our wife

But I am not African. I have never been taken care of. If you take care of your wife you can tell her what she can and can't do. I don't live like that.
My husband and I were partners.
He never told me what to do.

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You have to tell me about your family cus I'm interested to know everything about you

But I have already told you.
I have two grown sons. They are adults and they have a son each.
You were so interested you can't even remember that.

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I did know that and one is into car business with your friend in glasgow
But you you didn't tell me about the second one

No. My sons have a car business in Glasgow. It is a family business. My friend Max works in the car industry and lives in England. When he comes to Scotland on business he stays with me. He usually visits my sons as part of his job as well

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Oh ok, that's good
What type of car do they deal on
I know more about cars especially used cars

Mercedes Benz. They do have other cars in there that they have bought from people coming to their garage. But it's a Mercedes Benz dealership.
We have nice cars. I like them. I am proud of my family they run it well. There are used and new cars in there. Everyone likes cars so it is a good business to be in.

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Oh ok, that's good, I have a friend in france who use to send cars sometimes for me to sell for him

I wanted a new A-class but I don't like them as much as the old ones. I like the old shape. But that is just me.

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Oh that's good, the new A class is very classic
You going to like it, I think I have seen it online before

I love the old one..... so right now I have not decided which car I want. I drive a Nissan at the moment which my sons say I shouldn't be !

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Is the old ones expenses?
What type of nissan?

Leaf... it's an electric powered car.
I love it so I probably won't give it up yet. It's lovely. They don't make any noise at all ! I have had it about a year now. I did almost run a man over in the street because he didn't hear the car coming. So useful if you really don't like someone. It is so quiet.
There see... we have talked.
Properly tonight. We now know more about each other.
it makes sense doesn't it.

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I understand you baby
But you know that I really feel something different about you

So.. I am about to go to bed.... I am so tired... catch you tomorrow.

So there it was left. How is Kaede getting on with him?

Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2015 1:28 pm

Not a big progress yet but his mentioning about jobless make my stomach hungry with roasted pork for Chinese New Year.

Hi. Gina says ok to let you contact me. I send you contact request. But keep in mind that we are just friends and nothing more than that.

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Hmmmm, its nice to be friends with you, Gina told me how you people met in scotland and how nice you, that's very good, I hope you will be nice to me too...Where ar you from?

You tell me where you are from first. If you are asking something, talk about you first, that's the manner.

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Hi marcie, sorry, I m from lagos nigeria and I m 34 years old

I am from Tokyo Japan, at 40's, born in the year of dogs. What is your job? I am electrical device QA engineer.

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Oh that's cool, I use to work with the constructions here as a labor but currently I am out of job

Why?

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Well the problem is from the company

is it hard to find job there?

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They ar not having more jobs and they have to sack some workers
Yes its hard here but I m trying

I see. So how do you earn for your living?

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Its during the new year that I lost the job, so I have been living with the little I save and sometimes my friends do assist me financially
How about you? Do you live alone in Japan?

It is normal to live alone in studio type apartment here in Tokyo. We do not have custom to share rooms.
i need to check something now. I'll go offline. Bye.

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Oh that's good....where ar you originally from? I like your name Marcie
Oh when ar we going to talk again?
Its nice talking with you

No more chats, OK? I want to log off.
do not bother me.

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Alright I don't mean to bother you
Take care of yourself

Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2015 1:43 pm

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No more chats, OK? I want to log off.
do not bother me.

There are people in RL that I wish I could say this to. Laughing

I really hate when lads tell you about their "best qualities". These guys are claiming to be the salt of the earth. Bugs the heck out of me! Evil or Very Mad

Master Baiter Joined: 05 Sep 2014 Posts: 139

me too. they always want you to think they are "A God Fearing " person Where have I heard that before? From a script.

Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2015 1:54 pm

Just few messaging today. Tongporou (Tong po Pork dish) is still far away...

Regarding to my name, it is common in Asia that people use English name if the name is difficult for foreign people to pronounce. I do have real name but I have freedom of using my English name. Understood?

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Hey, yes
It sounds nice
So what's your real name?
And what have you been doing for the weekend?

My name is Masami but my US and European friends can't pronounce well. So I use Marcie as English Name. My Chinese name is Shi Liang and I use this name with friends in Chinese speaking region. But you may call me Marcie.
Why should I tell you about my weekends? I have my freedom of my weekends and off time, no need to be traced by anyone.

Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2015 2:00 pm

Oh poor Uche.
All he wants is a romantic woman to say his silly words to. He doesn't really know many words....
I have been thinking of you...
You are beautiful to me...
Have you eaten....

that's almost his entire script if you don't lead him along.

I also love the way he thinks he is so good looking, all those selfies!

He knew Max stayed last night to I am waiting for him to ask about him and what happened !

Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2015 2:08 pm

Masami's English is very much limited too, make only cold and harsh words due to poor expression capability, hehehe Twisted Evil

Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2015 12:26 pm

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Hi your names sounds very cute
Marcie, I know you have your freedom but just wish to know how you spent your days sometimes

Which one is your given name and which one is family name? How can I address you? I am not familiar with Nigerian names.

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Hi dear
How ar you doing today?
My given name is Uche and family name is Chinetu
You can call me Uche or Emmanuel

Ok thanks, Uche. What's Iroko then? Another family name? Sorry if it offends you but Iroko in Japanese means male dancer who is also homosexual call-boy... In medieval times...I mean.

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Awwww, iroko is also a name that was given to me by my grandfather, I m not a homosexual lol, I m straight and Iroko means a The biggest and the strongest tree in the world
I m not offended dear, we ar just getting to know each other more

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Hi Marcie, Do you know who's Max

Hi, Uche. Yes I know Max. He is friend of Gina's family, trustworthy person and he is gay, married to man. Don't worry, I know how Max loves his husband!!

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Oh ok

That's good. So I hope you can maintain good relationship with her.

Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2015 12:41 pm

Oh my biggest and the strongest tree in the world is jealous !

You see.. it's me he loves ! You know what I like about him... he doesn't have a script ! He wings it... badly.... but wings it !

He is an unemployed Nigerian labourer.... every woman's dream man ! I am sure Marcie can be very nice to him !

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