Anthony, super quick in declaring his undying love. FB

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Posted: Mon Jan 19, 2015 2:13 pm

I am sure I am the target in the Lad College of Romeo.

https://www.facebook.com/anthony.jhoward.988

I've stuck him on SW and I am trying to get him to just talk to me as himself. As the last one he seems to go away to ask someone about what I have said. It's like baiting a callcentre. I'm sure he puts me on hold !

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Hello Gina..... Thanks for accepting my friend request.... Nice to meet you

Nice to meet you too... how are you.

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I'm good and you?

Yes, me too. Where are you?

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I'm from CA and you??

Scotland !

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That's good... Hope you don't mind about the distance between us

Oh no, I like to make friends from anywhere. Makes life interesting

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Are you single?

I'm a widow, yes I am single.

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I'm also a widow I lost my wife 7years ago and I have been single and alone since then..... Since when have you been single???

6 years now.

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I can see we have a lot of things in common... Are you ready to get married again if the right man comes???

I don't know. That's the truth.
No one has come along yet.

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What are the qualities you look for in a man???

Truth. Not a thing I find often. Honesty and the respect to let me be me ! I won't be dominated. .. LOL not much then !

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Ok I will let you know some things about me
I want you to know that i am a sincere, honest, caring, kind, friendly very easy to get along with. I am social, romantic, passionate, smart, intelligent, cool headed,adaptive,have a big heart. And i do believe in the truth and honesty as God is first in my life

Oh wow.. well, you think a lot of yourself then. I prefer to find out what a person is like for myself.

a long silence....

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I'm 52years old and I work in the US ARMY

so, where are you now?

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I'm still in USA. Ok baby.... So what do you do for fun?

oh all sorts... watch ice hockey which is what I am doing on TV right now. I like meeting friends and well, my days feel full. I like walking the dogs too.

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Good baby
We will talk later. I will be busy right now

another long silence

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I'm likely to be deployed soon

Oh where?

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I'm not sure of anywhere yet

Don't they tell you before you go?

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They always tell us before we go but I. Have not been told yet but I know I'm likely to be deployed any time

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For someone to be successful in his job he need to like the job
Where did you retired?

when my husband died. I didn't need to work any more.
I worked at home. I am an artist and I did the drawings in children's books.. so it was never hard work !

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Good. I will like to see you drawing someday sitting by your side watching you and smilling

that is moving a little fast.. I believe we have just met tonight !

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Yes does that mean I'm going too far??

oh yes....

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Ok!!! Just don't like hiding things I pour it out as it comes my mind

well, but even you can't feel anything so quickly.
you must think me pretty stupid !

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You can't compare yourself with others, the way you feel things maybe different from other people and I have never said I feel anything so far

just you want to come here.
I wanted to stop that talk before it starts.

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I'm saying I will like to meet you soon. Or don't you want us to go beyond just talking here??

know I have had fakes Anthony. Please know I won't be scammed again. It hurts far too much.

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I know how one feel when being hurt before and you never told me that you have been hurt before......Life can be unfair sometimes, but that's no reason to give up on it... If you want to close your heart because of the fakes you will meet the real one and never give the chance in your heart

I don't want to close my heart. I don't want to open it again and have it broken.

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It will never be broken I'm assuring you. We just need to be praying to God and he will lead us through because I have strong believe in him

Goodnight. Talk again sometime.
I am not a God person. You need to know that.

So that was last night !

as soon as I logged on today...

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Ok. Have you taken your coffee this morning

I drink tea.. and yes. I had a lovely cup of tea.
What are you up to today?

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Nothing much just chilling with colleagues

Now you and your colleagues seem to chill a lot !
It won't be as chill as here !

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Really??, you are relaxed babe?

Chilled as in cold I mean.
Surely California is nice and warm?

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Yes it is not really cold here, we chill, we not cold.
I hope to meet you in your city soon

You said something similar last night. I don't know you.
Do you usually love so quickly?

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You are already getting to know me. We are friends who knows we can be a good and perfect lovers
When I meet someone I'm having real feelings for I do love quickly

We have been friends for 18 hrs... and it takes considerably longer to get to the stage where I would find out if you would be a lover.
Does the woman always feel the same?

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Yes it depends on the kind of woman.. Don't you have feelings for me??

How can I . I only first started speaking to you last night. How can anyone have 'feeling' for someone so quickly.
I am a mature woman who is a littel cynical.
I won't be rushed into anything and truthfully, just cannot say I have any feelings for you.
Since you do not seem to have a woman at present I have to ask you how long your 'relationships' usually last? Rushing into it doesn't seem to have found you a life partner.

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It is ok it happens but I know very soon you will give me a chance and I promise never to hurt you in anyway

You seem confident
What makes you love yourself so much?

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I know it is not good to rush but I can't hide the feelings I have for you I just need to pour out all I have in my mind

I like confidence.... but I am amused at the way you feel about you.

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I love to be sincere about my words as i don't have any hiding agendas. Because i hate to make people feel bad.I really do believe that every one should at least be given a great chance to smile and share there feelings to each other

oh those hiding agendas

But that didn't answer my question

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What do you mean I said I love to be sincere and how did that not answer your question???

I would not dream of saying to you something like .. . I am social, romantic, passionate, smart, intelligent, cool headed,adaptive,have a big heart. .... I don't love myself that much. These are the sort of things others find out about you... not what you tell them.

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I need to tell you things I know about myself first and you will also find out as time goes on

That's fine. I just can't say things like that about me to you. Because it is not for me to tell about myself. I mean, I think I am perfect but I am sure others don't
Do you have children?

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I'm also perfect you can't say others are not.. well that quip went over his head !
Yes I have a 12years old daughter

You have such long gaps between answering me dear. Are you doing something else as well?

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yes

OK, so you have time to chat or do you want to go?

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Some disturbance are here let us continue our conversation

ok... so, tell me about your daughter.

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What would you like to know about her

well, I just thought you may like to tell me about her... isn't she important to you?

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If I tell you be saying you always like to find out things yourself and I'm sure you will meet her soon

Oh I don't expect to be meeting her soon. My children are grown up and have their own families. I am sure I

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If we get married you won't want to meet my daughter?

There you go again... IF we get married. Anthony, we 'met' online last night. I can't possibly even think of 'if we get married'. You assume a lot.

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That's what always comes my mind and I know its gonna comes true soon

Well dear. I am sorry to disappoint you. But it isn't going to come true soon. I think you should try another woman. I am not sure I am right for you.

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Why did you say you are not sure? You need to be sure we are meant for each other. I know you love me you just thinking maybe it is too fast and that doesn't mean anything.

How do you know I love you?

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They way you are talking your only saying it is too fast so it is obvious you just don't want us to start now and I can't risk giving you the chance to love another man. I can read your mind the way we a chatting I'm a great listener. I am so thankful though, in this short period of time that we've been getting to know more about each other and we have grown so much...... I can't wait to see what the future holds for us

ok.... now I think you should go. We'll talk later dear.

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Why did you said I should go.... Are you mad at me???

I just need to think.

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Ok I agree that you should think about it and get back with a good reply...... I will be waiting

Ok, so the ring is almost on my finger. I've sent him away happy. Honestly... this is one quick worker ! Now, he is in CA, not Afghanistan so I don't need to buy leave. Where will his deployment be? I am just wondering where the cash will be needed.

Posted: Mon Jan 19, 2015 8:34 pm

This lad is nuts... pure nuts.... he must be prowling Facebook to see when his women log in. A minute after I do:

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Have you think about it sweetie???

not really. Still far too soon for me.

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Ok you are free to think about it to tomorrow morning

what eactly am I thinking about? Surely I don't have to commit to marry you now???

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Is that your conclusion???But you will soon that's ok with me

No, I'm asking a question. We only started talking last night and I am being given an ultimatum.

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No that you are given ultimatum but I don't want us to be slow on this so I can't loose you to someone else

Oh you won't lose me to someone else. If I can't decide with you so quickly I won't decide with anyone. That is what I am trying to say.

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Good to know that... How was your day???

this one is mad, quite mad !

Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 9:59 pm

and there he was GONE....

When I logged into FB tonight I had a friend request from him.... which was odd. I messaged and asked why and in a second he was there.... his account had been 'hacked' and he couldn't log back in.

So... he obviously has other enemies than me ! He must have been reported by a few I think... then after just a couple of messages, before I could even accept his friend request he was toast again !

He will return as someone else I am sure... but in this incarnation he is gone.

Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2015 11:25 pm

Love just slipped right thru Gina's fingers! Razz

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