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Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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My name is age 34, a good looking woman single but been married before and am now divorced.I have one son. I was born in the Uk and right now am in the Uk and I also have families in Africa. My son is liven with my family right now in Africa and am in the UK for studies.I'm kind, lovely, caring, faithful and optimistic lady. I'm very cheerful, friendly, understanding, hardworking and responsible. I'm the woman who can handle consequences in life and can manage a serious and serious relationship as well. I love being the woman who's true to myself always. I can say that I'm the woman who has the ability to live life to the fullest. Am new here and I really liked your profile and will love to write you and get to know you more if you do not mind. I will end now and waiting to hear from you. Kiss and GOD bless.

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Hello Orville,

Am fine thank you for asking, You are welcome and am so happy to hear from you too Orville, Its a grate pleasure to hear from a man like you. Everything you have written and said about you, is like I already know you before we mate. Everything explain about you.

Orville, I do not care if you are young or old as long as you have the heart to love and be loved then I have no problem about that. I have been married before and am now single as you know.I have one son and I do not mind having more in the future. Am so sorry to hear that, you have no family, wife or kids. But its still wonders me why till this age you have never gotten married or have no kids. Can you explain to me why you never got married or had any kids?

I do not mind taken that young lady as my own, my blood and flash as long as she will take me as her own. Orville to be honest I have grown to like you suddenly after reading your message. It might have been so had been alone, having no family, wife and kids to call your own. But I pray that someday you will still be able to have the heart to love, get married and have your own family whom you can look up too and be happy. We all deserve to be happy Orville. No one was born to be a lone without any one to turn too.
In life you might have friends and coworkers that, you look to and have fun. But what is more important is to come home to meet a family full of joy and smiles waiting to welcome you home and spend good and quality time with you Orville.....I know sometimes, life hit us with unexpected things that do take us by surprise but we must try and do all we can to make good use of the time left of as to be happy.

I like everything about you and the pictures you have sent to me..Sure I assure you that, this will not be the last mail we write to each other, I also pray and hope that this will go beyond just a mail Orville. Am serious and not here to play games. I have been hurt so many times myself in my life and all I seek now is true love, joy and happiness because Happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, gold or money.Money and love aren't the same thing. The more you spend money, the less you have, the more you spend love, the more you get in return.Love doesn't cost money, but it does require the payment of your heart.A man can inherit a house and money from his parents, but only the Lord can give him a sensible wife.Love is when money and materialistic things no longer matter. It's when you're holding the hand of the woman you love and you feel like the richest man in the world - you have everything.With money, we can buy all things, but with love, we find everything that really matters.It isn't money, fame, or power, no, the greatest adventure in life is love.Power is one thing; money and power are two things, but love is everything.

I just hope you are not here to play games with any woman? Because you never know where your true happiness lies. We might be distance away from each other but that, should not stop us from given it a try....I assure you that, I will always reply to your eyes and keep in touch with you, then we see what happens next. But as the saying goes time will surely tell. I will end now and waiting to hear from you again Orville,, Take good care be safe, be happy and live your life to the fullest OK? Life is too short to be unhappy. Kiss and GOD bless.

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Good day Orville! Am doing fine and my son is also doing fine too. Yes I have no problems with your age. I understand everything you have said so far.
And your questions, one way another a woman as been let down and hurt before. When it comes to this internet dating you never know who is here to play games or not. I myself have been hurt so many times and to be honest, I was about given up when I had to write and to give myself this last chance Orville.
But if I may ask you? Why all the women you chat with, are or where they not good enough to be your woman or your dreams woman?
How are you doing and how is everything with you there? I guess everything is fine and you are doing fine yourself? Well I will end now and waiting to hear from you once again Orville. Take good care and GOD bless..

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello My dear friend, Well my weekend is good and fine. Thank you for asking. Yes we are really doing fine and well. How about you and your daughter doing? I hope you are also doing well and fine too. You do not have to worry, I will tell you something little about my son and also send you some pictures of him and me. His name is Justin, age 3 years this year, a good looking small boy, calm, innocent and great. Apart from this, I do not know what more I can say about my son but if there is anything you want to ask about him. You are more then welcome to ask!!!

Yes you are right about been hurt..But sometimes that should not be a part of a relationship although when it comes to matters of the heart,soul and building up a good relationship. Although in a relationship everything it has it own ups and downs. And also All relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn’t be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn’t likely to grow, and become something that you desire. Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship. We also need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this. Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause love has just one important ingredient: Trust.Do you trust me? Love means never doubting anything.

This is also something little about me...I am vulnerable about my exterior appearance, about my body. I do not like when you compliment me about my aspect with jokes. I like and sometimes even prefer a stranger's compliment when it is said appropriately. I like when you surprise me with your compliments. Being surprised is like feeling there is something new, novel. I appreciate constructive suggestions, for example about the way I dress, but I do not like when you joke about it. If there is something you do not like, for example my new lipstick, tell it with courtesy, and buy me another one without letting me know. I want to laugh, laugh, laugh with you. I want to dance with you, listen to music with you, and laugh with you. Let's laugh, let's free up, laughing together!
I like biking, I like going to the ocean and walking on the beach. You know it and I love when you propose doing something that maybe you do not specifically like doing, but you do because you know I like it.
I love surprise gifts — a haircut, or a day at a spa, or an hour of massage. It is a real gift when I come back home and find tasks I was supposed to do during that time already taken care of!
A dinner invitation is nice too, but it has to be a surprise. I love when you anticipate my desires; it means you know me very well, all the little things I care about, and my habits. Sex is important. Love is outside and inside the bedroom. New things in bed help strengthen and renew the relationship. You make me feel your sexual desire with your eyes, and it usually takes only a few seconds. I love when you look at me in the right way, when you gently put your hand in my hair. I like those kisses with closed mouth, like in the movies. They are like a preliminary, and make me thirsty for what is going to follow.To love me is to accept me as I am. I do not want to be judged for the things I do. I want you to trust me and let me do what I feel is right. We women are always "right" — it is a matter of love. When I feel alone, empty, a stranger, I want your eyes to tell me I am the person you love and you want me for what I am. Do not do or say things because you think you are "honest", do them because of your love for me, and trust me even though you think I am wrong. Just as we do not judge our children because they are our children and we love them.Be happy because I am happy. I like you when you say hi in the morning. I like when you call in the evening and tell me where you are and when you'll be at home. I feel nervous if I do not know where you are and I am here waiting for you. I like when there is complicity between us. I do not necessarily like when you do things I am jealous about, such as preparing the table or cooking dinner. But if you do it, take care of everything, to make me feel completely relaxed about it.I like men's faces, their butts, the way they walk. A calm, warm, masculine voice can be very intriguing. I like when you talk to me with a calm tone of voice. I care for your compliments and your caresses. I like you when you are romantic, when you dream with me, when you are close to me while I fantasize. Even a stranger I meet on the bus can make me feel like a woman if he knows how to listen to me.

When it comes to the internet you can never know who is serious and who is playing games but you must also be known to you that, no matter what comes our way we must do all we can to fine what we are looking for and be happy. I hope I did not write too much today? Lol.. I know right now, you are lonely and need someone to run to after a hard days work. But my dear, I assure you that, someday soon you will surely fine what you are looking for. I will end now and here is the picture of me and my son, hope you like it?

Take good care and GOD bless you. kiss and hugs.

Greetings from me, son and family to you.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello again Orville! You are welcome my dear. I just wanted you to know everything about me so as to know everything about me. Am an honest and serious woman. Its good you liked everything you read about me. I just pray things might go further for us more then just friends. I really like you Orville, although I barely know you and you know me. But I believe with more emails and serious communication we will surely get to where we went to go my dear. All I seek now is true love and happiness and am ever ready to give that back and more to the man My heart will will seek for. And who knows that man might be you. But time will surely tell for sure. Let just give each other a chance and see what happens.

I just hope am the woman you are looking for. Please as we communicate, just let me know if I do hurt you. Do not hid anything inside of you OK? Am also lonely too for years now and all I seek now is to be with a man and I can see we have the same common ground of what we are searching for.

I will end now and waiting to hear from you again. I hope you do not mind me been so far away Orville?. Take good care and have a wonderful weekend. GOD bless. Kiss and hugs.

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Good morning my dear, how are you doing and how is work and how is your Sunday? I hope all is well and Ok with you there. I have not heard from you and I just thought I should send you an email. I wish you a good and a wonderful Sunday. Kiss and hugs. How to hear from you.

Posted: Sun May 11, 2014 5:33 pm

Copy Paste lad wrote:

...I am vulnerable about my exterior appearance, about my body. I do not like when you compliment me about my aspect with jokes. I like and sometimes even prefer a stranger's compliment when it is said appropriately. I like when you surprise me with your compliments

Is this a new update on the copy/paste sites?

I have read this 4 or 5 times in the last 2 weeks.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

I think you may have read this in several of mine this week. It seems to be a fave for the scumbags!

Posted: Sun May 11, 2014 6:57 pm

Yes, I think it was in your baits. I kept having to check and see if I was re-reading the same post!

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

Good morning dear. How is your Sunday? I'm very happy to see that you like me and I have no problem with knowing one another much better.It's not like we need to rush anything. We have the distance between us and a way to communicate so why not use it. I agree that we need to give each other a chance.

I seriously do not think that you will hurt me in any way but I am not a man that hides his feelings. I don't mind the distance, that is the easy part to overcome.

I got busy working yesterday and was unable t get to my email again until this morning. I didn't mean to worry you!

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Good day my dear. My Sunday is OK and well. Thank you for asking. Am also very happy and excited to hear from you although it took you long to write again.(smiles). Yes we do not need to rush into things we need to take easy and time. Because time will surely tell if we are meant or destiny to be together or not. But to my best of knowledge and how things are going. I know that, we will be meant for each other.

Oh sure, I will not do anything to hurt the man I care and love. Although am not perfect as every one but we must make good use of every moment given to us.

That is OK, you do not need to explain to me. I Know you have no family or a wife to run to after a hard days of work. So I guess you are always busy. But I believe that soon all this will end and you will not have to feel no more lonely.(smiles).

I will end now and wishing you a wonderful Sunday. Kiss and hugs.
Greetings from me, my son and family.

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Good morning how are you doing and how is your day been? I hope all is well and fine with you there?

Good morning sweetheart! How are you doing today? I hope you and Justin had a great weekend. I believe that you are correct and we will find ourselves coming together.

I think staying busy is the best way to keep my mind off of being lonely until I do find someone special to rush home to after work.

None of us are perfect. We just have to figure out if we are willing to live with and tolerate the others flaws. Let's face it we all have our faults and mails are a good way to find many of these.

Please give my greetings to your family. Have a great day baby!

Posted: Mon May 12, 2014 9:19 pm

Every time I read the thread title, the name seemed to familiar, then it came to me, the name I am thinking of is Cassie Anthony.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

I remember her. Wasn't her mother named Cindy?

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Good day my dearm! am fine and OK and also my son is doing great too thank you for asking. Yes we will surely fine ourselves and we will surely meet if we are meant to be together.

Well that is all you can do, is to stay busy but just remember you have to always keep yourself happy for no one can make you happy. But nothing is more happy in this world then coming home to meet a happy family waiting for you.(smiles). But time will surely tell.

No one is really perfect but we all must always bear in mind not to do anything to hurt the once we love and care the most. How are you and how is your day going with you? I hope all is well. I really like you and you seem to be a good, honest and a grate man but time will tell if we are meant for each other.

I will end now and sending you all the blessing in your day. Take good care. Kiss and hugs.

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Good morning my dear, how are you doing and how is everything with you there? I hope that, all is well and life is treating you well. Well its Tuesday morning again with so much Sunshine here although its not hot outside yet but am sure it will with the temperature of 32 degrees.

I will end now and am wishing you all the best in your day, take good care and hope to hear from you. Kiss and hugs.

Good morning Honey! How are you today? It nice to read that you and your son are fine, as am I.

Since I love my work it does keep me somewhat happy. It isn't th same as a family but it's what I have for the time being.

Thank you for the hug and kiss. I will need it today. Things were very busy yesterday and I did not even get to take a lunch break on time.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good day my sweetheart! Am fine and my day was OK and good. Thank you for asking. I also hope you are OK and having a good day at work? I feel so happy too written and hearing from you. It makes know at list, I will wake up to have a man and a best friend to write too.

Yes you are right. But I believe that, if something is meant to be it will be. Who knows we might be meant for each other and we will make it to meet. Or what do you think?

You are welcome my darling. I like you and I think am falling for you although I hardly know you or we know each other. But I think you are the man for me. But I do not know if am the woman for you.
I want to wish you a good and a wonderful day at work. Kiss and hugs.

Greetings from us.

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Good morning my love, How are you doing?

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good morning sweetheart! Am fine and OK, just that, I missed hearing from you baby. But now that, I have heard from you. Am so happy and excited. That is OK, I do understand. I know you have been busy.

Yes I really do care about you although we hardly know each other but I think you are the man for me and all I want is for us to be together.

You are welcome and I also thank you for your email. Its make me so happy. I miss you and I need you in my life. But its hurt sometimes when I do not hear from you. I will end now and wishing you all the beast in your day. Kiss and hugs.

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Good morning my love, How are you doing and how is your day been? I guess by now you will be at work sweetheart? I just want you to know that, I love you so much and missing you a lot. I just hope to hear from you baby. I wish you a good and a blessed day baby. Kiss and hugs. My dear, please I need a favor from you? Can you please help me with $150 so I can some foodstuffs for me and my son and also an airtime on my internet modem? I do not want to lose contact with you. Business as not been good for me. Please you are all I can ask this. I will be so glad and happy if you could help me if not for anything but my son, he needs something good to eat because of how business is bad, I could not feed him well. I will end now and waiting to hear from you my love. Kiss and hugs.

Good morning baby! How are you today? I am doing fine and we're still having some trouble with the computer but at least I am able to reply to you this time.

Did you only talk to me becasuse you want someone to pay your bills? I am here for a wife and family, nothing else. You will need to figure out a way to pay your own.

Posted: Fri May 16, 2014 5:41 pm

$150 for foodstuff? Is that for the week or the year?

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good evening my dear, Am fine and OK baby. That is OK am so glad to hear from you anyway! But why do you think of me like this. Am not here for any one to help me pay any bill or you to help me pay any bill. I have been paying my bills long before I mate any man and even you. But business as just not be good for me this time and am finding it to pay for my bills. But if you just think of me like this then I do not know what to say any more.

If asking my man for 150 dollars which makes him think evil of me then, what assurance do I have that he will take good care of me and my son once we are finally with him. I just want a man who will love me, care for me and my son, make me happy. I want a man whom I can have a family with and nothing more. Well I will end now and I want you to know that, no matter what you are still the man for me and I will never look back.

I want to have a family with you. I wish you a good and a wonderful time. Kiss and hugs...Love you

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Good morning my dear, how are you doing and how is work and everything? I hope all is well with you baby. I really missed you so much and I just had to check up on you darling.

Good morning dear! How is your weekend? I know that you have been paying your bills for a long time just as I have been paying my own. You know when I started looking to the computer for a wife it was because every single woman I met in my area always had some type of emergency that required my money. I was hoping the women I met here might be different.

If you use money to judge how you might be treated by me then you are wrong. Is it customary for people where you come from to ask someone they have known for a week to send them money?

I am here for you and your son but not for that money talk. We would be better off discussing our lives and not our problems. I could give you a whole list of problems I am having if we were sitting at home together but I wouldn't expect you to solve them for me.

Master Baiter Joined: 26 Jan 2014 Posts: 144

"a good looking woman single but been married before and am now divorced.I have one son. I was born in the Uk and right now am in the Uk and I also have families in Africa. My son is liven with my family right now in Africa and am in the UK for studies."
Did I miss something ? It says that the child lives with the Family in Africa , what business is she in ? Why does she not inform the child's father that said child needs to have food?

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

It makes no sense that he left, or sent, the child in Africa to live with family but needs money to feed him and the baby.

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Hello my love! Am fine and am doing well this weekend. I understand everything you have said and I will never talk about any more issue or even ask you to help me. I guess there is no point in talking about it.

Am not talking to you because of money because if I did, I will have not been on line. I will have found a man here in my country who is rich. But I need love, care, smiles and happiness and nothing more. But if you think of me like this that is OK.

I know you are here for me and my son but what is the point of saying you are there for me and my son if you can't even help us for at list our foodstuffs. Well never mind. So how are you and how is your weekend been too? I hope all is well with you there.

I will end now and wishing you all the best in your day my dear. Kiss and hugs. GOD bless.

Good morning my love! How is your Sunday? It is a relief that you are here for actual love. I do hope that we may continue to work on us and hopefully find ourselves wanting to meet and marry.

What exactly do you do for a living? I don't think you have ever told me.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

Here is his answer to the job

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Good evening my dear! My Sunday was good and OK. Yes I just want you to know that, am not here for your money or for your wealth all I wanted is for you to help me out that is all. But I want you to know one thing if ever we are ready to meet in person. Then you will have to come meet me in Ghana because I will not have the funds to meet you there.

I use to be an accountant before I lose my job. Right now I have my own small salon that I run but is too small that I do not earn much.

I also wish you a god and a blessed day. Kiss and hugs.

This lad is quite confuse!

Hello again! Once again, it is nice that you are not here for my money but I really don't understand why you think anyone wants to come to Africa. That would be a waste of money and time since I would never plan to stay in your country.

There is no work, no opportunity, no chance of creating a business for ourselves without the corrupt cops coming around thinking they would be able to rob me because I am white and no hope for a family outside of being a beggar for scraps and you know it. You are from there and can't make anything more than paltry sums.

Rather than focusing on this stupidity about money we should really be figuring out what we are ready to deal with and whether it would be worth it to come together.

What type of salon are you meaning? I know accountants make decent money but I am curious to find out what you decided your money should be invested on to turn a profit.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello again my love! You are right that, coming to Africa will be a wast of time. Because you are not planning in coming to stay here. Because if you will come and then fly back again is going to be really a wast of money.

Well there might not be work here but there so many good business ideas and invest here that, when you do open your own business here in Africa you will surely make a good business and profit for yourself. Although there are some kind of business which makes a lot of profit here in Africa. And when it comes to the cops you are right but with an African woman like me by your side you are safe my dear. But never mind.

My dear, I want you to know that, I want to be with you but the problems is I do not know how and I also do not know if you know how?

Hair styling salon is what I have. I do so many hair styles but you know business is not good hear for we the small business traders. Yes I use to be an accountant but due to the bad economy here I have no job anymore and with all the money I got from the accounting. I had to use it to look after my son for so many years now. Been a single mother is not easy my dear.

I will end now and wishing you a good and a blessed day again.

Posted: Mon May 19, 2014 1:37 am

Business is good her to invest in, but my business is not making money because business is bad here.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

Makes cents to his mind at least.

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Good day again my dear! Yes I know that and to be honest, I do not know what more to say because is like you have said it all my dear.
You are right, we need to get pass by this idea and then figure out what to do to meet. But with me, I have already told you, it will be hard for me to even make my own way to meet you in the usa. Although I will have love too.

Its now 12am here and am now ready to go take my shower and rest for tonight. I just wished I was with you right now. But I do not know if that, will ever happen. I wish you a good and a blessed day kiss and hugs.

Good morning my sexy girl! How are you doing today? I hope you had a nice shower and sweet dreams. Wish I could have been in there with you. I wish you would stop sulking dear. The trip to the US I am willing to help with. I would not expect you to pay for that when I know you hardly earn enough to help out with your son.

Honey I know very well that single mothers struggle to raise their children. If you don't mind me asking what has become of the childs father?

Posted: Mon May 19, 2014 5:04 pm

He either died or cheated and left with her best friend while she was giving birth. Razz

Master Baiter Joined: 26 Jan 2014 Posts: 144

SBAH , Yes you are most likely right , it found it's best friend on bed with it's man and they ran off and had a whole litter of "kids" so the baby daddy can't pay any support.... . I guess it forgot it was living & born in the UK ?? To think that asking for money from someone you don't even know, trying guilt them into it by making them think a child is going hungry! Here's a tip for you lovey, don't have any more children until you can take care of the one you have!

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

He does eem a bit conuse about where he actually is until it got to the money shot. Then he changed to Africa.

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Good evening my love! Am fine and my day as been good but just stressful for me baby. Yes yesterday I really had a good and a wonderful shower I just wished you where here to shower with me so we could have a good time together.(smiles). Well with helping me and my son to fly to the USA when the time is right, is a good idea and am so happy. But if I may say this. Am sorry too but what I do not understand is , how can you say you will help me to fly to the USA, when you do not want to help me pay for even my internet bill or even help us with our foodstuffs? Well never mind I do not expect you to answer that baby. I will be so glad when the time is right for us to be together, you will be able to pay for our trip.

Yes my dear, its not easy been a single mother for so many years but I have always been there for my son all this time. Just that, business as not been good for me lately and am not finding it very easy.

Well I have never hear from my ex husband since we last divorced baby.

I will have to end now and waiting to hear from you again. I love you and kiss and hugs.

Good morning lover! How are you 2 doing today? I am fine today but it's still early and you were right, yesterday was very busy.

It's a shame that he can't be pressed to even be involved. Poor kid is the only one that suffers from what that selfish person is doing.

I do hope you will write again once you find a way to get it back. If not I will inderstand and hope that you and your baby will be fine without me.

Master Baiter Joined: 26 Jan 2014 Posts: 144

"Well with helping me and my son to fly to the USA when the time is right, is a good idea and am so happy. But if I may say this. Am sorry too but what I do not understand is , how can you say you will help me to fly to the USA, when you do not want to help me pay for even my internet bill or even help us with our foodstuffs? Well never mind I do not expect you to answer that baby. I will be so glad when the time is right for us to be together, you will be able to pay for our trip. " This just aggravagtes me So!! Grrrr! It looks to a virtual stranger for support instead of going after the obvious father of said child? Then it whines about it's grocery bill! Have you no pride woman? Give us the babydaddy name, we will get him to pay up .