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Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good day darling! i am happy to hear from you again and i hope you are enjoying your day and how is work.. Babe i told mom every thing about you and she was so happy and my uncle agree and they all love to have you as in law..so i told them when you finished your treatment we will start the planning.. i love you so much and i cant wait to be your wife and sleep beside you and see our children grow..i hope to hear from you soon...

Good morning love! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. It's nice that they are happy for us and I am waiting for it to end. It will be nice to have a family of my own again.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

This is interesting. From the original I get

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Good day darling! i am happy to hear form you and i wish you are enjoying you day.. i wish to have my family with you and spend the rest of my life with a lovely man like you.And i thank God for given me a good,lovely and care man to love me..And i hope to hear form you soon daring...

Good morning baby! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I am having a better day but not quite over the pain. I did find something that eases it so that may be for the best.

I am ready to start our family too.

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And the new spoofed addy with different pix I get

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My name is ,i am 31 years Old,I am Single,i am a fair lady ,dark black hair, brown eyes, 5' 9", 141 lbs.,Long Hair and a healthy Lady. I am self-sufficient, Beautiful, happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.and working as a Training nurse am Living with my Mom and Dad in a Logging house,i want you to know that i was born and raise in USA but now living in Ghana with my mother ,my Father is a is from USA and my mother is a ghnain ..i have been In Ghana for about 15 years now and also i my father pass away when i am 18 years i am a Hard working lady and very friendly have no Kids and Never Married..Talking about who i am;am that easy going type, adventurous, romantic,ambitious and have a very good sense of humor..My hobbies are too many but to mentioned a few; sports,watching movies, going for walks, listening to music (almost all types of music), love on the beach, dancing in the dark etc.A woman without a man is like a river or a stream without a source and as relationship are build on trust and with mutual respect I assure him my whole heart. I don¦t know and can¦t tell if that special person is you but I believe it’s you Bcus your advert alone speaks of it all so why don’t we give ourselves a chance and find out what happens. I know at this point, we have something in common so let us be serious to each other and see what the future will be for us and pls write back and stay blessed..i will send you some pics and i hope you will will also send me some of your Handsome pics i wish to see you lovely face baby..

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good day babe! how are you doing i hope you are doing well and enjoying your day ..i am happy to hear you say we are going to start our family..i love you so much and i cant wait to see that babe i love you so and i thank God for giving you to me..and if i may ask how is work and i hope it is doing will..i love you so much and i cant wait to hear from you again darling and have a good night..i love you sweetheart...

Good morning honey! I hope you are well and enjoying your weekend. I am fine and so is work. I'll be happy when we finally do begin our family and I can hardly wait to enjoy my sexy wife every night.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

Faux Ho

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hello how are you doing Tonight and if i may ask how did you get my G mail because i don't remember give you my mail and we did we meet and i give you my mail tell me..i hope to hear from you soon..

Since you wrote me maybe you should be telling me how you got my email. I don't recall ever meeting you before your mail yesterday.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good night babe i am happy to hear form you again so what and i cant wait to have sex with my lovely husband i love you so much and i hope to hear from you soon darling..
Your Wife

Good morning baby! I hope you are well and enjoying your Sunday and churching. I am glad to see your mail again and happy that I am not the only one looking forward to having sex.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good day babe! i hope you are enjoying your day..i am happy to hear that form you...so tell me the day you will let me know when you are going to let me send you the marriage list..i hope to hear from you soon darling i love you so much and i can wait to be your wife..

Good morning honey! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I don't understand this list that you speak of. What is it all about?

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good day babe!how are you doing today..?i hope you are doing well..the list that i am talking our marriage list so that you can know how you will do you marriage rite thing if you don't my uncle will give me the list so that i send it to you so that you see what you can do about it..should i send you the list sweetheart..i hope to hear from you soon..
your wife

Good morning sexy! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I have never heard of this marrige rite but i am interested to see what it's all about.

Posted: Tue May 20, 2014 5:50 pm

I think that's the list where they outline how much money and alcohol you're going to provide for her uncle and family members party, that you won't be attending. Razz

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

The wall of words. I'll try to get through it but I can't promise anything.

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TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE...
Traditional Marriage Ceremony is a 3 days traditional marriage held to signify that one is ready for commitment..It ensures that the community becomes aware of the woes and feelings that each other has for one another and therefore as custom requires or demands ..there must be a traditional marriage for any woman in the community before the wedding ceremony itself occurs...

Even though we are in a community where superstition and beliefs are respected God is also respected. In order not to violate the Traditional norms and customs of a particular community the Chiefs and priests of the community where the woman is are allowed to go on a 2 days ceremony to perform their rites to ensure the woman into the correct mood of commitment.

Anyway,the church is also honored and given the Sabbath day to use to ask for God's guidance and protection unto the woman as she is entering into a commitment.It occurs as a right to send a girl into Puberty and all those women who get the chance to pass through the traditional marriage are given due respect and can be invited into the seat of Elders of the community as It serves as purity to make the individual clean.

Anyway as I am also a member of the Board of Elders of the community and wants the best for my niece I will want to advise to pass through the Traditional marriage.Also .there is an announcement to the whole community and make clear to the notice that the woman who is going through the traditional marriage can't be dated by anyone and must be respected in the society..

To avoid bringing of Disgrace and Shame unto the community any woman who does not pass through that stage and gives birth is regardless in the society and sometimes banished from the society depending on how serious the offense on the gods are..It also serves as the place where the Family members,loved ones and friends can go ahead and give their final verdict and give blessings to the one.

Since I guess you too are planning to be together one day,I might not have the chance to witness your wedding ceremony as I am growing older day by day.I will want to have the opportunity to give her my last blessings.I am therefore asking you whether you want her to go through the process and I want you to know that is the norms and customs of the society so I dont have the power or mandate to go against it so all I can tell is that you join hands and go through the Traditional Marriage.

Since you want to do it I will like to ask when do you want the traditional Marriage ceremony to take place as this month the Chiefs, and priests are kind of free and also the church has not announced any marriage yet so we could hurry up and fix a date for it..I am thinking if you can agree to let it start earlier if we are still alive by the grace of the Almighty God.

I give you both my blessings and wish you a very happy and prosperous marriage with lovely and wonderful kids..God be with you and guide you in anything that you wanna do.I will talk to the chief and let them know about the Marriage and also get all items that will be necessary for the wedding and then I will let Love or I myself will let them get known to you.Have a very nice time and God be with you too...

Good morning baby! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. That was a whole bunch of general descriptions of nothing but if your uncle feels that he needs to bless you in whatever way then he can do that. I don't understand any of it and not really sure that I am meant to.

Since I do not need to be there I can't gather the reasons for asking a date from me. I can't see that it really matters since it is your tradition and not mine.

Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 5:36 pm

He mentioned "items", that means you have to pay for them. It's the party I was talking about. I have seen this before (I don't know if it was here or in one of my baits).

Master Baiter Joined: 26 Jan 2014 Posts: 144

Well over here the Bride's family pays for expenses?

Posted: Thu May 22, 2014 1:01 am

^^^^ Not to mention a dowry. It's double if she's not a virgin and triple if she's already been married. Razz

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

I've had 2 pull this rite thing on me before. Guess I need to mention the US custom to him.

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Am really having a great time now that am hearing from you. I would have loved for you to have a phone conversation with my uncle will that be okay with you?

Good morning honey! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I'm sorry honey but I have no need to talk to your uncle on the phone. I can talk to him by email any time though.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

He's too lazy to even create a new address for the uncle and sends both of these on his own.

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Hi Sir,

My niece have told me all about you and i will want you to know that in the traditions here before a man can get married with a woman he will have to get some stuffs settled and that includes the bride price which as the name predicts involves some amount and since you cant be here i can get a friend of mine to stand in for you so that all the rights will be performed so all needed as at now will be the Bride price(funds) for "knocking" so that other rights can be performed.

Thanks.

(Uncle)

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Honey hope you have recieved the mail from my uncle? How are you doing today? I really want you closer to me.

Good morning angel! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. You know I have received it, it was sent with your message. Please inform your uncle that the American custom is for the brides family to pay for everything and give the groom a bartering amount for accepting her and it's more if you aren't a virgin and even more costly if the woman has been married prior. Only Boko Haram, human sex traffickers and pimps think women are to be sold.

Posted: Fri May 23, 2014 5:02 pm

That was perfect nv! Evil Lol

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

He doesn't seem to agree with you.

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Good day honey,
The customs of this two countries are very different. Lets not talk ill of ones customs

Love you.

Good morning honey! I hope you are well and enjoying your weekend. The customs that you speak of there are illegal in all other countries so we won't be participating in that. I'm pretty sure he won't be too happy with your family having to pay for our wedding so I will allow them to overlook the whole dowry thing for now.

Posted: Sat May 24, 2014 4:39 pm

Derrick wrote:

I'm pretty sure he won't be too happy with your family having to pay for our wedding so I will allow them to overlook the whole dowry thing for now.

Great response!

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

I tried to be nice about it. At least they didn't have to come up with it all at once.

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MR R ,
I went to the Chief's palace and I had the arrangements made.The priest and the church elders as well as members of the board of Elders and also the Pastor.The items needed for the community and there are as follows below..I will want to say them to you so you can see what you can do about that .... Community Items Local Drinks to sever the population has been estimated to about 5 Gallons and will cost $320.00 (Akpeteshie) Alcoholic Drinks to recall down the spirits of the ancestors and lost family members to share the ceremony will cost $310.00 Pito for the Elders and community board members I mean the elders as custom demands will cost $320.00 Local Kente cloth 9 yards for the ceremony and brisked African Mats will cost $540.00 Jewelery and Adult tree cloth and I will handle that.I can provide that Vehicle to convey her and family members to ritual Points will cost $650...........00 for all the three days. The Items for The church Since it will be a communion service we will need to buy at least two cartoons of communion wine and it will cost $400.00 Also Drinks to serve congregation after Program might cost $1100.00 These are all the things and registering fee will be $200.00 and be share among the elders who are going to helped for the success of the Ceremony It cost to a total of $3840.00..
Uncle..

Mr. Hammond I will not be paying for your binge and I won't be following your tradition. If you wish to do it then pay for it yourself. I won't be sending any money for you alcoholics to throw a 3 day drinking party.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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sweetheart i have some pictures for you babe i hope you will love them dear and i hope to hear from you soon i love you so much..xxx

Hello again baby! Thank you for the photos dear. I do like them. I will have new ones to look at tonight in our bed.

Posted: Sat May 24, 2014 9:07 pm

Alcoholic Scammer Uncle wrote:

Local Drinks to sever the population has been estimated to about 5 Gallons and will cost $320.00

If it only cost $320.00 to sever his population of scammers, I will chip in! Love your response to him and can't wait to see what he writes. You could always tell him to take it out of the $25,000 dowry (that's the amount my bait character Fred requires, and that's for a virgin), so he only owes you $21,160. Not to mention the wedding and reception costs. The alcohol will be a hell of a lot more than what he's asking. Laughing

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

He isn't too happy with my reply.

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HELLO DEAR

Happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, gold or money.Money and love aren't the same thing. The more you spend money, the less you have, the more you spend love, the more you get in return.Love doesn't cost money, but it does require the payment of your heart.A man can inherit a house and money from his parents, but only the Lord can give him a sensible wife.Love is when money and materialistic things no longer matter. It's when you're holding the hand of the woman you love and you feel like the richest man in the world - you have everything..With money, we can buy all things, but with love, we find everything that really matters.It isn't money, fame, or power, no, the greatest adventure in life is love.Power is one thing; money and power are two things, but love is everything....

Good morning angel! I hope you are well and enjoying your Sunday and churching. I don't understand your reason for sending me that message but it seems very fitting for you to show your uncle.

I don't think we have discussed this before honey but are you a virgin? I'll need to inform your family of the dowry that they will offer me after they pay for our wedding.

Posted: Sun May 25, 2014 6:03 pm

^^^

OH MY GOSH! I am love, love, loving this bait. You are the best NV. Laughing

Master Baiter Joined: 26 Jan 2014 Posts: 144

Can't wait to hear how they answer this one!! You are The Man!!

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

That seems to have urged him on actually.

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Hello sweetheart i am happy to hear from you soon.dear i just want to know if you will pay so that you can marry me and i will come to don't mind my Uncle i just want you to pay the marriage bills so that i can come to you so that we will be happy and leave them there..all that they are say is i don't understand them i just want you to pay the marriage rite bills and i will just leave them and come to you...they don't know how i love you so much darling.i hope to hear form you soon sweetheart..Have are sound sleep and sweet dream..xxx

Good morning baby! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I will not be paying that marriage rite. If you are trying to help them con me you can stay right where you are. You are not their possession to be sold or reason for the entire village to ask for booze and gifts. I am not paying for my wife and don't ask me that again honey or we are through.

Posted: Mon May 26, 2014 3:05 pm