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Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hi Derrick,

How are you doing today?..Seems the email is working right now... * Smile

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Hello,

How are you doing today???.. am Joan,i think you already know my name.I am 33 yrs and will soon be 34 years ..am 5'6 ft tall 125 lbs with black hair, brown eyes and with average body type. ..lives along the coast of Ghana..Do you know Ghana?...I am Single and never married and don't have any kids....That was very nice of you i am also not into games nor to hurt and cheat on my mate i am new to this site.Anyway I 'm well educated,and well committed Christian i do always attend church always and will describe my self as I would describe myself as an elegant, stylish and very charming woman.

I have a lot to share with my life partner, and keep in a good shape both my body and mind. I value the laws of ethics and good taste both in others and myself. I am an optimistic, tender, lighthearted lady. I am waiting for the real man , who is tender and faithful, who is caring, intelligent, well-educated and with good sense of humor and at the same time responsible, independent, decisive and self-urged , who is a defender and support for me and does his best trying to achieve his goals in life..I completed my Nursing college but now working now because the country is facing an Inflation now.....I am a lady with Dignity and seek for the same in a Man..I like Golf,am a beginner and need to learn more...Tiger Woods is my fun...

I am seeking for a Relationship that will lead to marriage or anything that may comes up..I am 100% HONEST AND TRUTHFUL in a relationship...I am Truthworth,honest,loving,caring,faithful,respectful,God fearing..The most important to be the best friends for each other, and also to choose each other as number one in our lives.
I have lots of tenderness in my heart to share with my husband. My dearest dream is to have a family of my own, a loving husband and children. I want to realize my desire to have a cozy and harmonious house; I want to take care of my family, to love and to be loved. I dream about finding my second half and give all of myself to him. I am looking for a man to open my heart up to. A man to build with, to dream with, to love unconditionally through good and bad times. When you are with the right person there is nothing more wonderful and special. For me love is having someone to share everything with - both people sharing their hopes, dreams, experiences, fears, success.I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I would also like to find a like-minded Man where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well.

I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, carving African art, and reading,play golf and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship;one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - ha ha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working...Well i think i will have to end hear and also hear a little about you and also try to send me your photos also...Hoping to hear back from you soon.

Take Care

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Hello Derrick,it is nice to hear from you again..You shouldn't be shy to share your pictures with me....You are such a handsome man....Is distance a problem with you in a relationship?...I am hoping to hear back from you soon and tell me much more about yourself..Take Care

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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You are perfectly right yes it gives time to know alot about each other...How long have you been single now?....What went wrong in your past relationship?...Tell me about your personal life style and character...Don't hesitate to ask anything you will want to know about me....Hope to hear from you again soon...

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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It is wonderful to hear from you again Derrick...How are you doing today?..Sorry to hear about how your past relationships ended,that's pretty bad of the women not treating you well..I hate people who cheat and take other people for granted..I hate lies ....Yes i think we should be open and free minded to help know much about each other...what are your likes and dislikes?..What work do you do?.I hope to hear from you again..

Good morning Joan! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. Thank you for the email. I hate those things too.

I am a drilling consultant. Can't wait to read from you again.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hi Derrick,

How are you doing today?..Nice hearing from you again…That’s a nice job you have..As i told you earlier i am currently not working because of the bad economy we facing here in Ghana now…I completed my nursing college with a diploma and also a degree and pharmacy…I like all you say and want to know more about you…Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs…?..What do you think about relocating for a relationship?..I will end here and hope to hear from you again,also don’t hesitate to ask anything you want to know about me..Take Care

Good morning Joan! I hope you are well and enjoying the day.It is sad to know that you don't have a job yet. I am sure you can find one it just takes time. I have been known to drink a beer or 2 on occasion but am not an alcoholic.

I did smoke but quit almost 2 years ago when I found out it was causing me health issues. I had to quit doing drugs as well when I started this work. It used to be a job where you could do them but not not any longer.

I know I couldn't relocate for a relationship. I have my business to run.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello Derrick,

How are you doing today ?…It’s nice hearing from you again..That’s for your inspiring me on searching the hope,i hope to find one soon..Good to know you don’t drink much…well i have never smoked,or drink alcohol …What will you do if you find your woman from another country since you not ready to relocate..?…tell me more about yourself and how you like to treat your woman…hoping to hear from you again..Take Care

Good morning Joan! I hope you are well and enjoying your weekend. It is great to see mail from you again. I have no idea what I will do if I find someone in another country. I'll deal with that issue if it happens.

Right now I am constantly either working or going back and forth to the hospital for treatment for my cancer.

It has been a while since I have had a woman but the last few I did have were treated well. I didn't treat my wife so nice once I found out she was cheating on me. I divorced her the second I found out.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello Derrick,

How are you doing today?…Sorry it took me sometime to reply your email,i was finding it difficult with my internet don’t know what the problem seems to be but its working alright now…Just got back from running and will soon prepare to go to church…Sorry to hear you have cancer,i think it can be cure..right?…. Here in Ghana there are herbs that cure more diseases ..Good to know you treated your ex relationship pretty well…I like to treat my Man like a King,i always want to see him smile and happy…I do everything i can just to make him happy so we can have peaceful relationship…I treat him with care,love and affection …Sorry to hear about how your past relationship went..Have you ever made contact with someone from Ghana?….will end now and wait to here from you again..Take Care and be good..

Good morning Joan! I hope you are well and enjoying your Sunday and churching. Cancer can actually be put into an idle station but it take treatment. I have had it before and they were able to do that but it flared up in a different spot this time.

I have talked to a few women from your country before but they just did not seem very serious about writing their own words. I stopped mailing them after a few messages were sent full of what I could tell was not their not and was merely that poetry drivel from some website.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello Derrick,

How are you doing today?…Well am sure you treating yourself well…You also need a woman who will be there for you to take care of you…It funny how someone people just come online to play games…What do they actually gain from the games the play…I am not here for games and don’t want anyone to play games with me or waste my time..I am seriously seeking for the man who will love me for who i am and not lie or cheat to me…I like you because you are free and open minded..i will like to know more about you.What do you do on your leisure time?….How trusting are you in a relationship..?..Will end here and wait to hear from you again…Stay Blessed

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello Derrick,

How are you doing today?…It is always nice to read your mails…You speak so well..I couldn’t go running this morning because i over slept..LOL..Yes a woman by your side will help you get well soon and will be there to do things you can’t do…That very bad of those people,what will you even gain from play games on someone just t o get something from them..I am not to judge them but their judgement awaits them i Heaven…Yes trust needs to be earned but to earn trust you will have to give yourself the chance to trust….Trust is very important in a relationship…We all have bad experience in our past relationships and life but we need to open our heart to new things because that is the only way we can find what our heart seeks and desire..When in a relationship i want to give my all in it and trust my man 100%…I also put my faith in him because these are the qualities that makes a relationship….Tell me about your past relationship….Will end here and wait to hear from you again..Take Care..Try to send me some photos of yourself..

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Yes there might be a reason why i over slept because that’s unlike me…Didn’t do any hard work night night too…Yes you trust people with all your heart and they hurt you that's very bad…It hurts you to the bone that’s why one must earn your trust..I think i understand you…Come on you don’t need to pose in a picture to send me..I just need a picture of yourself…I don’t mind looks,personality and character is what matters…There are many handsome people out there with Ugly and evil inside them..LOL..What are your likes and dislikes?…Tell me what makes you happy and makes you sad…Will end here and don’t hesitate to ask anything you want to know about me..be a good boy…

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello Derrick,

How are you doing today?..Sorry it took me sometime to reply your email,i am having problems with my computer that gets me pretty annoyed..LOL…Anyway its working ok now….I must say you are such a handsome man,7years back and u still looking good..My dislikes are same as yours,i also hate men who cheat on their women...There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship.
Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with your partner.

Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.

When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met......Hoping to hear back from you soon..I like all you say in your mail and i will want us to get serious and get to know much more about each other and see what future has to offer us…It is wonderful exchanging mails and i want to know much more about you as time goes on,do you mind talking on phone,if yes what is your phone number..Will end here and wait to here from you again soon..

Take Care,

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hi Derrick,

How are you doing today?…Yes i feel terrible when i don’t understand the peeps the computer makes…Lol..Thanks for your compliment on my photo too…Still having difficulties accessing my internet…Ok i have your number now,what time is it best for me to call you..Yes you are right,you need to set examples for your workers to follow,that’s like being a good leader...Are you able to send text with your phone?…I like you and want to know much about you….I want us to know much about each other as i think we already have some qualities in common…Waiting to hear from you again and i hope you taking very good care of yourself…be good..

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello Derrick,

How are you doing today?..Sorry it took me sometime to reply your email..I haven’t been well ,been suffering from malaria but i think am getting well now..I sent you a text message,don’t know if you got it…I hope everything is well with you and you are in good shape..Will wait to hear from you again soon…Hope you taking very good care of yourself..Be a good boy..

Good morning Joan! I hope you are feeling much better now and enjoying the day. I thought maybe your computer had gone down, I hate to see that you had malaria. I missed your mails little lady.

I told you my phone does not get text so I did not receive whatever you sent me. I am doing about as well as could be expected.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello Derrick,

It's wonderful hearing from you again...I am taking treatment and am getting back on my feet..Opps!! Sorry i forgot you told me your phone doesn't get text messages..Sorry....Am learning this computer so am not having much problems with it no more,just that my internet might be disconnected anytime soon because i haven't paid my internet bills..LOL...will see if my grandmother will help me pay it...Hey it's good to know you are doing well..Will end here and wait to hear from you again soon..Be a Good Boy..

Good morning Joan! I hope you are taking your treatments well and enjoying the day. It's okay that you forgot. It happens to everyone.

I think it's it's great that you are learning about your computer. I am just learning to use mine properly and I can take the cover off and dust it out in an emergency but I like to let the computer guy handle that stuff when possible.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Hello Derrick,

How are you doing today?...It's always a pleasure to read your mails..Yes am learning the sounds of the computer...We have known each other for sometime now and it's feels like i have known you forever..I think i am developing some feelings for you...I think about you and always expecting to hear from you ...How is your health now,are you taking your medicine as prescribed ?....Hoping to hear again from you soon and take care of yourself..Be a good boy..

Good morning Joan! I hope you are feeling better now and are able to enjoy the day. I have to admit that I have also developed feelings for you and look forward to your mails every day. While you were sick and unable to write I was searching every morning for a letter from you.

I am taking care of myself and taking my medicine as ordered. I did run out of 1, and will soon be out of another but I have an appointment soon so I'm not worried about it.

Maybe you could teach me about those beeps once you learn them.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good Morning Dear,

How are you doing today?...Sorry it took me sometime to reply your email,my internet at home has been disconnected and i have to go to the internet cafe to reply your mail...Miss you..How is work going and have you booked the appointment with the doctor yet?...Trying to find a way to pay my internet so i can get internet back at home and talk to you always...I hope you are taking very good care of yourself for me and being a good boy..Take Care

Good morning Joan! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. Work is fine and I am going to the hospital for treatment every day of the week. I'll be glad when you get the internet at home again where you don't need to visit the cafes to write me. I guess it works for now though.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Awwww how i wish i was there to be taking care of you darling...I say a prayer for you everyday so you will surely get well soon....I have still not paid my internet because my grandmother said she has no money to help me pay for the internet this time,so i guess i will have to walk miles to the cafe everytime to email you...Miss you loads...

Good morning Joan! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. It would be very nice to have you taking care of me but at least I know where I can find you at after I finish my treatment. Maybe we will discuss bring you to me at that time. I miss you but I understand your situation.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

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Good Morning Darling,

It's nice to hear from you again..How is your health?...Yes we can discuss about me being in your arms when things go well for us and we know we are perfectly for each other,but now lets slow things and get to know much more about each other...Dear wanted to know if you would sometime have time so we could skype and see each other and also talk.what do you think?..Also babe i would want to know if you would be able to help me pay for my internet since my grandmother said shes broke now,i promise to pay back when i find a job and start working..

Good morning Joan! I hope you are well and enjoying the day. I would love to have you in my arms and in my life. You are right that we need to slow it down but then I was never in a rush. We still have 10 or so weeks of treatment that I need to finish before I would even be able to discuss such a move.

Actually I do have skype and should be able to find time tomorrow at some point when I catch up with my work. If you would like to give me your contact info there I can look you up.

Honey there is no way that I can help you with your bills. I will have to set money aside to help with your trip to me when we get ready for that. There is no way I can support 2 homes.

Master Baiter Joined: 26 Jan 2014 Posts: 144

The way they take advantage ! You've mentioned your surgery, frequent visits to Dr.s , obvious extra expenses ! Yet , it still has the nerve to ask you to fund his internet bill !! Saying that it walks for miles, to get to the café!! Awwwww! that's OK it has no job, plenty of spare time! Walking is good for you , it will give you time to formulate your resume and get it out to businesses . Hope Grandma does not suffer some sudden health problems of her own, or will they get rubbed, she gets run over by a car ,attack of the killer dingo? This one is eating out of your hands!

Posted: Sat May 03, 2014 7:14 pm

I predict for the next 10 weeks there will be short emails, not daily, and only contain, "hi, how are treatments? I miss you and can't wait to be in your arms". Then around week 8, starting to ask about getting things prepared and asking for money to start coming for visa, passport and ticket.

There might be an emergency with Grandma and needing money ASAP or other some sort of scam, such as him having his period. Evil Lol

They always find something.

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

Truth be told I am looking at 6 more weeks but decided to extend that to suit the situation. I can always throw in extra time if the position they take requires it.