Chandler Murkha - so easy to drive him away.

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Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 2:35 pm

Lad using Raymond Chandler photo but name was Major Christ Dennis West.
Name him Chandler Murkha (Murkha means idiot in Hindi).
The IP location was in India but language was more likely to be African lad.
He came to Linda's fakebook without asking for adding to friend, and asked email, so Linda gave him email addy.

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Chandler Murkha to me
I was so much excited to read your mail and thanks so much for taking your time to write me in spite of your busy schedule.

I am confident you are in good health now. Honestly, there is so much I want to tell you and so many things I want to ask you, I don't know where to start. I am new at this online dating thing so please understand if I am a little awkward at it. I am writing this message to you not for the fun of it, but because I want you to take some time for yourself and read carefully.

Let me start by saying that I thank God I met you. As you may have known, the fountain of any relationship must spring up in the mind. It is very important for me to express to you how much you really mean to me. I wish I could do this in person while gazing into your eyes,but since we are physically separated by miles of emptiness, this expression must come in the form of letters such as this.To me, you are first of all my friend and then...... something more greater in the near future..... God willing. To be honest with you, I am really short of words here, but one thing I do know is that I have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about through chat, mail or phone, and I have a heart; a heart that is aching to see your smile. I would like to use this opportunity to say...I am delighted to have met you.

To tell you more about me, I am an honest, kindhearted, hardworking man who does need the support of a loving woman. Ideally, l am someone who is confident in what he want and who he is. We all face tough situations in our lives and we sometimes tend to be mislead by it.*** A lot of times we often tend to give up. In this life, I have chosen to give up numerous times but I am proud to say that I have also chosen to stay strong and be patient all these years..... which has now led to my finding you. He who seek happiness; they say, by changing anything but his own disposition will waste his life in fruitless efforts and multiply the grief which he purposes to remove. Your living is determined not so much by what life brings you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens. This is the reason I have decided to move on in life in spite of my incalculable loss.

Yes! Distance doesn't permit the action to be seen, rather, words convey the feelings when distance hinders. No matter the distance that separates us now, I can assure you that this gap will be bridged as we really get to know each other. As the saying goes: "True Love and Friendship knows no boundaries and no distance; miles and obstacles mean absolutely nothing in the face of love" Though miles may lie between us right now, we'll never be apart forever, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart.

Now that dishonesty and disbelieve seems to be taking over our souls these days, to know there are people like you makes all the problems look smaller. It’s great to be your friend and to be able to look into the future and see a mix of serenity and hope. This fairly recent friendship is something I consider to be sacred already. It makes me have faith again in some simple but fundamental human values which sometimes; for the lack of practice, we swipe under the carpets of our memories and of our hearts. For me, this new friendship is precious and that’s why I intend to keep it till the end of my days. I believe we can achieve that, because I have faith in you and I have more and more faith in life and in the future. Those who have a friend like you fear nothing. Always bear in mind that my affection and true friendship will be yours forever. My job will be taking me to Afghanistan by today (Sailing for a month plus ....

Hug and sweet kisses

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Me to Chandler Murkha
Thank you for email. So you are on sea now? Why sailing, not flight?

You really confuse me. I have not yet said anything like accepting you to be my boyfriend or future husband or something of that kind. Need time, you know? I am open to anyone to become friend, so I said I was glad to network with such a high rank officer like you. But why, you already assume that I would love you?? So weird and you ignore my will?? That is not fair. We just met on Facebook, and Facebook is not matching site. Well, I know some people use Facebook as such things, and there are groups doing something like dating sites, I hate that kind of people using Facebook as dating site. If you are such kind of person, I am very much disappointing and I do not think I want to network with you. Now, distance does really matter. I am slow in developing such kind of emotions. I do not believe something caused by god or buddha, or fate or destiny or else people says. I do develop my future by myself, not god or buddha or fate or something. Also please do not say "hug and sweet kisses" on signature. Disgusting for me, as I am not yet allow you to kiss or hug me. Please don't or I will run away.

Regards

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Chandler Murkha to me
Hello Dearest,

I am so happy to hear from you just as the sea was calm today . When
you're in a long distance relationship, all you can rely on is letters,
cards, emails, and telephone calls . I see my self falling greatly for
you because you take the time to write me and make me feel appreciated.

Thank you my sweet heart, What more can I say to you, allowing me to
feel the warmth of your love across the great SEAS that separates us?
You truly have no idea what I feel for you.

I am trying to put this feeling into words, but I'm failing miserably.
This feeling of being both scared and at peace, of having both
butterflies and a sense of calm, is a feeling that I have only dreamed
about. As the days continue to pass, my love for you will continue to
grow. I never thought I had the capacity to love anybody as much as I
love you right now. My love for you will continues to mature, growing
beyond the realm of my heart. It seems that you have become the fiber
of my soul, the very reason for my existence.

I am sitting at a spot close to the sea now , drinking a cup of coffee
and listening to a music ( Find it here :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_pog2n9o5zs ).
I have no other words to describe the way you make me feel. No words,
no actions could even come close. I'm So Crazy About you baby.My dear
please send me email I love reading your Messages.

Have a nice day

Sincerely,

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Me to Chandler Murkha
Hello, Major Chandler Murkha

I have to say, I am NOT YET ACCEPTED YOUR LOVE and I NEED TIME TO FIND OUT YOU ARE RIGHT PERSON OR NOT.

You defy my will, and developing your own emotion, pushing your love to me. I hate that. I am becoming dislike you time by time. Do not call me sweet heart or something alike, until I can allow you to say so. We just met on Facebook. Why?? You are so cruel. I will not write to you anymore, if you continue same attitude. Don't send me link of youtube music, I am not interested at all.

Regards

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Chandler Murkha to me
how was your day hope you have a lovely day, am sorry for over some world that you do not appreciate

would like to know you better

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Me to Chandler Murkha
WHY? I DO NOT NEED YOU, SO YOU DO NOT HAVE TO KNOW ME BETTER. GOOD BYE.

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Chandler Murkha to me
ok have nice day

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Me to Chandler Murkha
Appreciate your good understanding. Good bye and have a nice trip on the sea.

I think this lad do not know what to do when his victim goes off his script by being negative.

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