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Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 1:10 pm

Emi, working woman in Tokyo encountered lots of Skype contact requests from unknown guys. Mostly just block them but tried to talk with one of the contact requestor and allow him listed to her contacts.

Emi is furious about contact requests from unknown guys, not knowing where they are actually from. (IP search found the lad from Ghana but in this story, Emi is not aware so believes the lad is from USA.)

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[21:31:36] Emi: who are you and what do you want?
[21:31:53] Emi: why you want to contact me and how did you find my ID?
[21:34:17] Emi: what is your purpose?
[21:35:11] Lad: i'm searching randomly when i saw ur name
[21:35:33] Emi: I see. SO I do not need to keep in touch with you. Thanks for answer.
[21:36:19] Emi: So I remove you from my contact, OK?
[21:36:34] Emi: Good bye!
[21:36:57] Lad: why?
[21:37:14] Emi: because I do not know you. I do not have reason to keep you in my contact.
[21:37:30] Emi: make sense, right?
[21:37:54] Lad: we can be friends and know more about our self
[21:38:12] Emi: why should I?? I am not interested.
[21:38:29] Lad: ok
[21:38:51] Emi: do you trust unknown person just met accidentally online? common sense is NO.
[21:39:30] Emi: Usually these guys are searching for women. Why should I show interest to them.
[21:40:06] Lad: so what are you up to?
[21:40:34] Emi: So just block you, now!
[21:41:02] Lad: why we can still be good friends
[21:41:27] Emi: why? I have lots of friends and I do not have reason to add you as friend.
[21:41:44] Emi: And I do not think unkown guys have good intention.
[21:41:57] Lad: why are you angry with me
[21:42:03] Lad: hmmmm
[21:42:12] Lad: i like your pics <-- quite average Asian pic.
[21:42:44] Emi: thanks. but I do not like flattering.
[21:43:30] Lad: friend we can still chat to know more about our self
[21:43:37] Emi: why?
[21:44:17] Lad: firend where are you from?
[21:44:35] Emi: from outer space far away in the galaxy/
[21:45:16] Lad: where is that my friend
[21:45:27] Emi: planet Romulan.
[21:45:43] Emi: so how about you? from Klingon?
[21:46:21] Lad: am from the united state
[21:46:57] Lad: but currtly in the sea to sweden right now
[21:48:11] Emi: I am currently in space ship and on the way to another planet in the empire of Romulan.
[21:49:54] Lad: good that is nice
[21:49:57] Lad: so how old are you my friend?
[21:50:11] Emi: why?
[21:50:34] Lad: notine
[21:51:21] Emi: You are so rude to ask about age.
[21:51:53] Lad: what do you mean by that my dear?
[21:52:43] Emi: Asking age is not polite. And please do not say dear. I am not your dear.
[21:53:02] Lad: hmmmm
[21:53:21] Lad: okay if you are angry with me tell me
[21:54:11] Lad: am a good and honset man of god okay<-- obviously mugu
[21:54:38] Emi: I do not believe someone saying himself honest.
[21:55:15] Lad: because you make me feel sad just now
[21:55:32] Lad: what is the problem my friend
[21:56:25] Emi: OK, I tell you what. I am receiving contact requests from unknown guys almost every day and I am too tired of this. I blocked some of them without talking. But this time accepted and tried to ask you what you want.
[21:58:19] Emi: So assume you are one of these guys. All these maggots states as honorable people, military or doctor or engineer. But I don't care whatever the social status are. They are maggots, contact unknown woman and saying looking for woman to marry.
[21:58:22] Emi: Idiots.
[21:59:27] Lad: what dont you mean my dear
[21:59:49] Lad: i dont understand you my dear?
[22:02:18] Lad: hello
[22:02:22] Emi: so now you understand why I am angry and you do not have to continue chat with me, right? Bye.
[22:04:06] Emi: Hey, I hate that word "my dear"
[22:04:22] Lad: okay am sorry for that
[22:04:41] Lad: but am not like them
[22:04:59] Lad: why most you angry with me
[22:05:16] Emi: All of these maggots say so, "I am not like them."
[22:05:44] Emi: Most of them say same things. and say "my dear" or something like that.
[22:05:56] Emi: disgusting/
[22:06:26] Lad: see what do dey tell you that make you angry tell me
[22:07:22] Emi: they say "just a friend" first, but actually looking for women. That is disgusting.
[22:08:21] Lad: really
[22:08:24] Emi: And ask me add to my contact. Almost every day someone comes and ask me to add to my contact. I am too upset about this, including you, ok?
[22:08:52] Lad: okay
[22:09:17] Emi: One of them send me a picture showing that he is a reliable man. I do not care what social status is. I do not like these guys coming to me and ask for contact request.
[22:09:49] Lad: really
[22:09:59] Lad: where are they from
[22:10:20] Emi: they says USA or UK.
[22:10:34] Lad: really
[22:10:45] Lad: ohhh
[22:11:34] Lad: friend what did they tell you again
[22:11:55] Lad: plz tell me so that i we no them
[22:13:29] Emi: Usually most of them says they are single father with one child, and in good social status like military leader or doctor, and looking for soul mate or something, and believe in God.
[22:14:35] Emi: But I do not care what their social status are. Maggots are maggots.
[22:15:15] Emi: I tell you what. They do not say something bad. But offending me a lot.
[22:15:55] Emi: Ask about age, marital status, that's really private thing.
[22:15:56] Lad: ohh am sorry for that my friend
[22:16:27] Lad: plz stop stop angry okay
[22:16:51] Emi: And says "my dear" "honey" or something from even the first chat. Crazy!
[22:17:17] Lad: ohhh
[22:17:31] Emi: You think they are maggots?
[22:18:03] Lad: i have not hear that before
[22:18:12] Lad: am just new now
[22:19:29] Emi: and they always says "I will like to know more about you" or something. Crazy.
[22:20:17] Emi: I have right to choose friends and I am not forced to become friend or girlfriend of these maggots.
[22:20:57] Lad: yes that is nice
[22:22:51] Emi: so understood now?
[22:23:12] Lad: yeah
[22:23:20] Lad: thanks for that
[22:23:41] Emi: Thank you for listening, appreciate your listening attitude.
[22:23:41] Lad: plz dont be angry again
[22:24:19] Emi: No I would not. and say good bye to you. Thank you very much!
[22:25:04] Lad: that mean you are angry with me
[22:25:29] Emi: No, I am not, but not necessary to keep you in too, I have my right to choose friend, you understood that right?
[22:26:26] Lad: yes but we can still chat
[22:27:12] Emi: what is your purpose?
[22:28:54] Lad: we can chat to b friends and know more better
[22:29:25] Emi: "chat and know more better" is exactly same as these maggots say.
[22:29:42] Emi: So you are one of these maggots, right?
[22:30:01] Lad: what do you mean
[22:30:06] Emi: And you will soon say something like dear or honey. I hate that.
[22:30:30] Emi: So will you assure that you are NOT seeking women?
[22:30:34] Lad: come on friend stop saying that
[22:30:37] Emi: Then I will believe you.
[22:31:03] Lad: am not okay
[22:31:21] Lad: believe me okay
[22:31:59] Emi: how can I believe you? So you will NOT fall in love so quickly?
[22:32:26] Emi: I tell you, I have boyfriend, and expecting something important shortly.
[22:32:50] Emi: So I do not need anyone pushing into that relationship..
[22:33:09] Lad: okay
[22:34:21] Emi: What is the reason you want to keep in touch with me although I am being so negative and unfriendly.
[22:34:49] Lad: but we can still be good friends so that we can share idea together
[22:35:01] Emi: what idea?
[22:35:28] Emi: What make you interested to unfriendly person like me?
[22:36:25] Lad: i dont really know
[22:36:40] Lad: put god know why is like that
[22:37:17] Emi: Ah, that is also same as what maggots says. God's wlll or something.
[22:37:45] Lad: they use god name too
[22:38:29] Lad: friend just 4get about them okay
[22:40:17] Emi: OK, if I find some more things in you that is same as the maggots, I will block you immediately. I will keep in my contact list for a while but drop you without notice if I assume you are the maggot. OK?
[22:40:34] Emi: I have to go now.
[22:41:14] Emi: You can send me email to myfakeaddy @gmail.com
[22:41:46] Lad: good my friend
[22:42:00] Lad: this is my email
[22:42:26] Lad: [email protected]
[22:42:37] Emi: Thanks.
[22:42:39] Emi: Bye.
[22:42:56] Lad: okay see you later

Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 1:27 pm

Emi keeps her skype logged in on her smartphone, so always Online.

Next day early morning.

Quote:

Lad: hi friend

Too early ... ignored. Then later in the morning time.

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Lad: hello friend
Lad: how are you doing?

Emi: Working. Busy.

Quote:

Lad: okay
Lad: so when you finish write to me okay

Emi: Why should I? I am busy today, arrive home late. No time.

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Lad: okay my friend

Then next 2 days, midnight chat requests. Of course Emi ignored.

Quote:

Lad: hi friend?

Quote:

Lad: hello friend

Then in the morning.

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Lad: what are you doing friend?

Emi: At work. Do not disturb!!

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Lad: okay

same day evening;
Emi: Hi. I really have no time to chat with you and do not want incoming call for chat at midnight or during work hour. Really annoying. If you have anything to say, I don't mind if you send me email.

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Lad: okay
Lad: i we send you and email
Lad: so are is your work my friend?

Emi: OK thanks. Pls do not send chat message at midnight!! Thanks!!

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Lad: why dont we chat now
Lad: are you busy now

Emi: Now is very late. I do not chat.

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Lad: friend are you still angry with me
Lad: i like you as my friend

Emi: Don't bother me, please. I need to get up early and have lot to do at work.
Emi: I have my priority.

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Lad: okay.
Lad: what kind of work do you do my friend?

Emi: I usually do not tell online only friends about details of my work. This is consistent to all online friends. I work at a private company, that's all I can tell.
Emi: Good night. I really need to rest.

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Lad: okay i send you and email

Emi: Thanks for cooperation and understanding. Bye.

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Lad: okay
Lad: have a nice dream ny friend
Lad: i really like your pics
Lad: can you send me your pics

Emi: I do not send photo or any other personal info to online friends. Only share with real life friends whom I have higher priorities. Please understand my consistency in this policy.

Quote:

Lad: Alright.
Lad: i understand you.

Then silent for 1 and half days.

Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 6:20 pm

Quote:

[21:48:11] Emi: I am currently in space ship and on the way to another planet in the empire of Romulan.
[21:49:54] Lad: good that is nice

Oh my gosh, glad I didn't have any coffee or it would be everywhere!

Posted: Sat Dec 14, 2013 11:07 pm

If I say I am from outer space or say like from Klingon or else, most of lads say "you don't want to chat with me." But this one did not give up. Interesting:p

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2013 1:13 am

Glad to see you are having fun. I started out being an alien hunter in Africa asking lads to help me look for space landings there. Thus my avatar.

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2013 1:24 pm

Hi, Mentor Skinner

Thanks for comment. Now I know where your avatar comes from!!

Posted: Wed Dec 18, 2013 1:03 pm

Again, very early in the morning.

Quote:

[2013/12/15 4:19:32] Lad: hi friend?

In late morning, during work hour.

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[11:36:46] Lad: hello
[11:38:59] Emi: Hi. Working. Can't chat now. Bye.
[11:46:42] Lad: okay

In the afternoon, midnight at Accra time.

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[14:55:53] Lad: hi friend
[14:56:50] Emi: Busy
[14:58:10] Lad: why are you always busy

I went off line. That was really in the midst of a meeting!!

Posted: Wed Dec 18, 2013 1:24 pm

And this was the last chat. Started from 9th Dec, wasted 10 days for the lad, and observed lad online even during midnight Accra time lol

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[20:01:56] Emi: Not always busy but you always try to chat when I am either busy or at midnight. Annoying.
[20:42:37 | 20:45:36 Lad edited the message] Lad: Okay friend (used to be "dear" and lad edited.), then you will have to schedule your time so we can both chat at this time
[20:43:30] Emi: Don't say dear. I am not your dear.
[20:43:55] Emi: And I don't see necessity to schedule chat with you.
[20:44:13] Emi: Now I am on chat with someone else.
[21:15:33] Lad: okay
[21:16:04] Lad: so what time can we chat my friend?
[21:16:36] Emi: I am on chat with someone right now but if you have anything to say, just drop your message.
[21:17:16] Lad: why are you always saying that
[21:18:33] Emi: You have freedom of dropping your messages on skype here or send me email, I don't mind.
[21:18:56] Lad: okay
[21:19:09] Lad: so what are you doing now?
[21:19:17] Emi: good
[21:20:16] Lad: so tell me what are you doing right now?
[21:20:43]Emi: chat with another friend about some topics to discuss.
[21:23:38] Lad: okay
[21:23:43] Emi: so what are you doing.
[21:24:38] Lad: l'm in my office having a rest now
[21:25:51] Emi: i see.
[21:28:07] Lad: why are you always busy my friend?
[21:29:34] Emi: I do not have to tell you.
[21:29:50] Lad: why?
[21:30:06] Emi: that's confidential.
[21:30:19] Emi: and privacy.
[21:32:01] Lad: but you can still tell me
[21:32:08] Lad: am your friend
[21:32:53] Emi: But not close friend. Just met online only. Priority lower.
[21:34:33] Lad: so what do you mean bout that now
[21:34:51] Lad: so that is why you are not chatting with me
[21:35:09] Emi: I have my priority as I mentioned.
[21:36:41] Lad: yeah you have
[21:37:16] Emi: Thanks for understanding.
[21:37:28] Lad: okay
[21:41:02] Lad: that mean you dont want me right
[21:42:07] Emi: Up to you. I have lots of friends. And you asked me to add. I did shown you favor to add to my contact, although I do not know what kind of person you are.
[21:48:00] Lad: okay if you dont want me bolck me from your friend list
[21:48:56] Emi: OK, I will do so then.
[21:49:05] Emi: Thanks for patience.
[21:49:26] Lad: (heart)(F)
[21:50:05] Emi: I don't like that heaart mark.
[21:50:49] Lad: why are you always angry my friend
[21:50:59] Lad: tell me why?
[21:51:20] Emi: I don't mean I am angry but I am not friendly anyway.
[21:52:26] Lad: why are you not friendly
[21:53:30] Emi: why should I tell?
[21:53:44] Emi: We do not continue to be friend, right? It does not matter then.
[21:55:07] Emi: I was tired with lots of contact requests from unknown people. I did not like that. Now frequency lowered but still coming daily basis. and you were the one of them sending contact request.
[21:55:52] Emi: And these guys were saying looking for women. I did not like that.
[21:56:39] Emi: I know you tried not to act like them, and I appreciate that.
[21:58:22] Emi: But today you used the term these guys often uses. (you edited though.)
[21:58:42] Emi: That's all.
[22:01:14] Lad: i dont really understand you
[22:01:55] Emi: I don't have to be understood by you.
[22:02:16] Lad: is up to you
[22:02:33] Lad: you can say what ever you like okay
[22:02:55] Emi: Yes, thanks.
[22:03:34] Lad: okay
[22:07:26] Emi: OK then say good bye now. Thanks for your long patience.
[22:07:59] Emi: All the best!!
[22:08:17] Lad: (u)(heart)(wave)
[22:10:09] Lad: are you there
[22:10:28] Emi: Block you soon, don't worry. I was doing something else.
[22:11:13] Lad: what are you doing?
[22:11:36] Emi: I do not have to tell you. Doing something on my PC, that's all. Bye.
[22:12:12] Lad: why are you always sounding like that
[22:12:33] Lad: are can you get married to a man
[22:12:44] Emi: why are you stick to unfriendly and agressive person like myself?
[22:13:04] Emi: mind your own business. I have my boyfriend (Blocked the lad from skype contact)

Posted: Wed Dec 18, 2013 1:26 pm

Probably I could have progress little more with this lad but if I were real potential victim, I would have terminate at this point.

I have been thinking of story until next week, Emi's Taiwanese boyfriend's mum in Taipei is sick and in Taipei while next week so that I will not be online during next week for real life vacation. Maybe use for another bait.

Posted: Wed Dec 18, 2013 6:58 pm

Your baits always make me laugh. They are persistent little buggers huh? You're rude to them and they come back for more! Razz

Posted: Thu Dec 19, 2013 6:48 am

SomeBuddyAtHome,
This skype character blocked 40 lads in 10 days while baiting this one. So many coming :twisted:

Posted: Thu Dec 19, 2013 5:23 pm

kaede wrote:

SomeBuddyAtHome,
This skype character blocked 40 lads in 10 days while baiting this one. So many coming Twisted Evil

Dang, how do you manage that? I have one of my ladies on skype and no one bugs her. Sad

Posted: Fri Dec 20, 2013 10:10 am

Hi coffinsurfer

I don't know but this always bad mood character catches a lot while slow and mild one finally caught another lad after 2 weeks.

Posted: Fri Feb 28, 2014 3:15 pm

more than 1 month passed after the final chat with this lad, and blocked him on Skype. Received this email but Emi was not aware for 1 month.

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Jan 24, 2014
Lad to Emi
Hello friend long time now why did you block me i have been seaching for you

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Feb 25, 2014
Emi to Lad

Hi thanks for your email.

I blocked you because no point to keep in touch with you.
What do you want so that you searched me?? I am not really interested to you. Bye.

Regards
Emi

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Feb 26, 2014
Lad to Emi
my friend why are you angry with me you don't know if am the right man to be your husband pls i really want us to talk you are always on my heart i don't know what to do emi talk to me what is wrong?

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Feb 26, 2014
Emi to Lad

Why should I care you. I hate the way you approach me, that's all. So persistent.
You are right man to be my husband?? Huh?? Are you crazy?? Or kidding??
I do not trust person just accidentally met online, OK? That is common sense. Meet online and quickly fall in love persons are pervs and con artists.
I have friends I know face to face in many places in the world and that's why I used Skype but because if you, I had to stop using Skype so frequently.
I do not like my time restricted by chat with you. I have my priority. And I have my right to choose friends. You are not in my scope. Do not contact me any more!! Good bye!!

Regards
Emi

Quote:

Feb 27, 2014
Lad to Emi
Friendship is not about who you have known longest,its about who walked into your life,said
i'm here for you' and proved it

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Feb 27, 2014
Emi to Lad
I agree that is a good quote but I do not need you.

Skype is not dating site (or if you don't like being said dating site then let's say matching site. I assume same though.). You found me on skype that means I am not expecting approaches like Fish Meet Fish or Tagged or something.

I do have some online only friends, but they are not persistent and not pushing into my life. You try to break that boarder, and I am not feeling good with that.

If you are very good friend, and very kind and considerate person, then just leave me and not contact me again, agree? Very Good Friend?? You are very good if you just go away.

Regards
Emi

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Feb 27, 2014
Lad to Emi

I NEED YOU EMI WHY ARE YOU SO ANGRY WITH ME WHAT IS WRONG LET ME KNOW I WE LIVE YOU ALONE

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Feb 27, 2014
Emi to Lad

GO AWAY, IF YOU ARE VERY GOOD AND KIND FRIEND. I HAVE LOTS OF REAL LIFE FRIENDS!! NO NEED YOU, VERY VERY GOOD FRIEND!!

What is wrong with you? Because you are persistent like stalker. Do you understand???

Emi