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Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

^^^ With the character you chose there is plenty of material you can work with if you need to flesh it out a bit more over time. It is a great start.

When you decide you are ready to move them to mail just tell them you are being flooded with PMs and would be more comfortable talking at your bait addy. Some will stay stuck there but most will move or leave you their email.

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 9:14 pm

Thank you next victim, that's a huge compliment coming from you! I tried to think "What would next victim do..." when answering pm's to my lads, then turned it into my own.

I had something like 10 new mails this morning on the site. I am going to just take a few, maybe 4, and move them to my bait addy. Keep the rest on reserve in for a later day. I don't want to get too overwhelmed. I have my own business, so I am able to make my own hours, but I still need to work!

I have one that is a victim in a refugee camp, I posted it in the Silly Lads thread, she's not going off script at all. I threatened that I would turn her into the owner of the site if she doesn't stop.

Rosina hasn't written me back yet, she normally does in the evening. We'll see if she comes back.

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 10:15 pm

She's back and I decide to give her another shot.

Quote:

hello how are you doing today....now i don't know what to say for you to believe me or what to do for you to believe that am the real person you are talking to...what do you want to know about me before you accept me??? if you know that you are here for fun let me know okay so that i will go and look for someone who is serious for relationship.....

Beautiful Rosina,

I am not here to play games with anyone. I told you that my wife died while giving birth to my son, who died 5 hours later. You forgot that. Can't you see how hurtful that is to me? I know that you have lost your husband and family leaving only you and your 7 year old son.

If you are truly SERIOUS and not playing games, perhaps we can give this another shot.

How are you and how is your trip to Africa coming along? When do you leave? Where are you staying?

You are so pretty, but I am worried you are not serious with me.

Fred

How am I doing? Is there anything I am doing that could be changed or added?

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 10:57 pm

I think you are doing great. Keep it up!

Quote:

I have one that is a victim in a refugee camp, I posted it in the Silly Lads thread, she's not going off script at all.

Senegalese Refugee Scammers are the laziest of them all. Big Al has done wonders with them and I have a certain 'Love' out there that is a real laugh riot. If you can get them off script, you won't regret it as they are a lot of fun. I'm assuming there is the Reverend Father and a Banker/Lawyer? If I'm correct, make the deal move along, get a Piggy or two, insult one or more of the characters and watch the insults roll in. It is worth the price of admission!

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 10:58 pm

She's afraid to go to Ghana- I think Capone is right.

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am doing great...am leaving together with all the nurses we were appointed to go and we have been told that we are going to GHANA of which i dont like to go there but if i dont go maybe i will be sacked from the work....we are leaving on the 15th of this month and will be back on 18th of the same month...my son is not happy at all just because i said am not happy about the journey to that country.....honey can you give me your yahoo so that we can chat very well there...

Hi Beautiful Rosina,

Why do you not want to go to Ghana? Is it a bad place? I know there are bad places in Africa, but there are bad places everywhere, so perhaps you should not judge the place until you have first hand experience.

Tell your son to be happy to go to Africa, it's an experience he will never forget. I someday would love to go there. Make the most of your travels there, be optimistic that it will be a wonderful experience.

I don't have a yahoo chat, I am not interested in chat, that is not a way to communicate with someone. I will give you my private email so we can continue to correspond while you are away in Africa. It's <my baiting email> . I look forward to hearing from you, beautiful.

Fred

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 11:00 pm

Oscarpile, I will give it a try. I will put it in a thread so I can get some advice.

And thank you for the encouragement!

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 11:28 pm

She changed the subject title to "Love of my life"

Quote:

You are the only man I have and the only man I want to make so many things together with you, my love of my life.if you said so then i will now make up my mind well and go....and how are you going to see my pics for you...

I look forward to reading more from you. I get a funny feeling in my belly when I see you have written me a message. I have such a crush on you and hope we can become closer. I am new to online dating and I hope you are being honest with me that you like me. I hope you don't break my heart. Please promise me you won't!

Send me an email at <my bait address> and I will send you another picture of me. I would like to see more of you!

Your love,
Fred

Baiting Guru Joined: 19 Mar 2012 Posts: 5373

A word of caution, there's no getting out of romance scambaiting now. You are not yet aware of it, but you are now in for life. I never got the warning. They just pointed and laughed at me. Now I can't stop. My name is Ginger Lee and I'm a romance scambaiter. I've been doing this since May. My gateway scambaiting was hitlads. Then I started doing lotto scambaiting. I did a few at first. But the high subsided quickly. I.just.can't.quit.

Have fun!!!!!

PS The support group is upstairs. There aren't any donuts.

Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 12:12 am

^Agreed! I think what was that again?

Honestly I read the stuff but never dabbled in it UNTIL a Mentee said you are perfect for this and I said "Self you is so Screwed" so I tried it and I spend my time here and like it but there are other things I hear though that may be a fallacy because of certain factors okay?

Sorry what was the question?

Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 12:57 am

^^^^^ I wouldn't be doing this had you guys not been so encouraging. Seriously, I appreciate everything you guys have done, not just for me, but for wasting lad's time on you instead of a real victim.

More from my first love:

Quote:

i will treat you like ...sorry to say my dead husband...i hope that the same way you are also going to treat me...am also new on dating site and this the only site i know for dating and you???

She's going to treat me like her dead husband and wants me to treat her like my late wife?

Lovely Rosina (do you mind if I call you "My lovely Rose?") I hope not, I put it's meaning as a new beautiful flower for our budding relationship.

This is the only site that I belong to. I am having a hard enough time trying to figure out this site, let alone any other. Why should I join another when it is you that I want to get to know.

Your love,
Fred

I am so smitten

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i just sent you an invite to gmail please accept so that we can chat okay

but not enough to chat. I don't do chat. Unless you are George Clooney, then maaaayy-be I would chat.

My Lovely Rose,

I cannot accept chat invitations at work. I type incredibly slow too. Let's just stick to email and maybe later I can chat.

Your love
Fred

Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 1:34 am

She doesn't understand that I don't chat.

Quote:

you can add me on [email protected] amwaiting for you okay

My lovely Rose,

I will be awaiting your email

Your love
Fred

she doesn't get it, again.

Quote:

okay you just accept for me...we will chat later

no no no we will NOT!

My lovely Rose,

I don't know how many times I have to say, "I don't use chat". For my correspondence, I use email only. I type too slow. Using email means I can answer you fully when I have time. Chat does not allow for that. So let's just stick to emails. Email me on my Gmail account. I will then answer you when I have the chance, okay?

Your love,
Fred

whew

Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 1:36 am

Quote:

this is mine [email protected] cant wait to see you online there okay...waiting

I am working love, you can email me and then I will answer later okay?

Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 3:55 am

She seems to think we are going to use email like a "chat". Response on FMF from above mail.

Quote:

okay

I am working love, you can email me and then I will answer later okay?

Quote:

and do mind to tell me the type of work you are doing now??

Now she emails me

Quote:

hello baby

This is where I lay down the rules

Hello. Is that all you have to say? I was excited to see an email from you, but you only said "hello baby". Please, don't think we are going to use email like a chat program. I want to know more about you. Tell me about your life, your dreams, your fears about what makes you, you.

Your love

Fred

Posted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 1:04 am

She's setting me up...

Quote:

how are you doing my sweet honey?? are you at work now

Yes, I am at work. I am always at work it seems. Nature of my job. Always on call.

How are you sweetheart? Are you at work? How is getting ready to travel to Africa going?

Yours,
Fred

Here we go, this is probably when I am going to need help. I don't want to flub it. I am thinking of telling her "don't go". I am sure she will say she will lose her job if she doesn't go, but I know the labor laws and they can't fire you because of that.

Anyway here is her reply to above

Quote:

am now at home...am still preparing my things together with my son own...honey i dont want to go so that i will not get money to come back...

Hi honey,

I don't understand what you are telling me. You don't want to go because...?

Your love,
Fred

Can't wait to read her response!!

Posted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 2:47 am

I am so angry right now that I can't see straight. I do not put up with racist remarks and won't stand for them while I am baiting these lads. It's just not in me to not speak up, no matter what character I am portraying.

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honey just understand me africans are bad..so when you are going for a trip like that you need to have enough money on you so that if anything should happen you can round away from the country? as early as possible...okay

I normally don't cuss, but I don't stand for any type of racist shit.

my response

Rosina darling,

I cannot believe what you just wrote to me. I am very angry at what you said. African's are NOT bad people. There are bad people in Africa but there are bad people here in the United States, too. Don't ever ever say any racist shit to me again. If you are a racist, please delete my mails and never ever contact me again.

My wife was African American and my son was bi-racial. So when you say that African's are bad people you are saying my wife and son were bad and I can tell that my wife was the most loving, giving and selfless person one could ever meet. She came here from Africa when she was 18 because she wanted to obtain her masters degree in business law and later to become a business attorney dealing in business contracts/contractual law.

My in-laws are still living in Kenya, so if you get into any trouble, let me know and I will send them there to help you out.

Or if you are this frightened to go, let your boss know your fears and don't go. He can't fire you if you feel you life is in jeopardy.

I am still so angry reading what you wrote about African's being bad people. I don't like racists or racist remarks and won't stand for people to say them around me. I don't associate with that type of people.

Fred

Do you think she'll reply? Do you think she'll go? Is she going to prove me wrong by getting kidnapped by those "bad African's"?

Posted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 3:57 am

I decide to forgive her. I am going to make her pay dearly for those remarks. Haven't figured out how, but she will pay.

Quote:

sorry dear...i didnt mean that but i was trying to tell you that am going there with all the capital i have...am really,really sorry dear please find a place in heart to forgive okay.....i love soo much..how i wish i can replace your wife for a happy marriage...am sorry okay i hope to hear from you again///

I ignore her "I love soo much.." remark

My lovely Rose,

I forgive you, just don't say or even think that a person is bad because of their race, judge them by their actions.

Your employer is responsible for your well being while you are in Africa. All food, lodging, transportation and safety is his responsibility, if you find yourself in a jam, he is the one to call. Legally he has to make sure all of that is taken care of.

If you do not feel that your employer is meeting those needs, file a complaint and don't go. You cannot be fired for that. Just stating that you are afraid or concerned for your life is enough for you to not go and have no repercussions.

How was your day?

Your love,
Fred

How am I doing? Is there anything else I should be doing? So far I have her knowing

1) I don't believe "African's are bad people".
2) My wife's parents live in Africa, so in case she gets into trouble they can come to the rescue.
3) She doesn't need her own money for her safety, her employers are legally bound to do so.
4) She doesn't have to go and she can't get fired for not going.

She might have to change her script and find a new way to scam me in another way. I don't think I left her any options for asking me for money.

Does anyone see anything that I need to cover?

Posted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 4:06 am

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AS YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT MY DAY IS ALWAYS GOOD FOR ME....And one another thing that i want you to know is that i will like to be with you after the trip and what do you think about that???/ hope to hear from you again?

Of course silly, you haven't asked me for money yet and I am dying to get a piggy or two from you!

Lovely Rose,

Of course I would like to continue on with our relationship and see where it leads us.

Your love,
Fred

Baiting Guru Joined: 27 Mar 2011 Posts: 21155

Looks like you've pretty well covered everything. I am not sure where he will take you now but I am sure that he is still going to try to push those things at you because it was what he intended to use in the first place. He also has the end option of coming home to you but he is likely to save that for later.

Posted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 5:16 pm

^^^^ I think he's still going to try and become kidnapped in Africa and his boss not do anything. I don't want to lose him as a lad, I think it would be awesome to get my first piggy on my first lad!

You guys are right, this is fun! I am going to start to fall in love with him before he leaves for Africa. Just to give him a bit of hope that I will come to the rescue!

Posted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 9:01 pm

I'm glad you are enjoying this. Hey its a hobby so why not enjoy eh?

The falling in love angle is piles of fun although it is also very creepy. After a bit you get used to it but it might take time as many Scammers are extremely rude. Their disgusting behavior is encouraged by most of us as it is likely to scare off any real victims.

Posted: Fri Sep 13, 2013 11:33 pm

I have one who has told me not to speak with another woman on the site Laughing

Took a whole 5 messages for her to fall in love.

Back to My Lovely Rose, I asked her if she spoke to her boss about her fears, of course she hasn't told him

Hi lovely Rose,

How is your day? Did you speak with your boss about your fears?

Your love

Fred

Quote:

i couldnt do that but now am ready to go...i have even started parking my things and also he said we are going to spend two days in addition so we will be coming on 20th of this month..i love so much

Hello my lovely Rose,

So you are going for 5 days? I am glad you are getting ready to go. I am sure you will have a wonderful trip. I take it you are going there to help people? If yes, that makes me more interested in you, love. I am so glad I have "met" you. When you get back we need to explore our relationship more. I have found myself thinking of you all the time and become excited when I see you have written me.

Your love
Fred

Posted: Sat Sep 14, 2013 7:09 am

@Oscar
Thanks for that tip, I was going to slap my lads for being filthy but see that it is a way of getting them rejected by their targets.
Learning all the time. Laughing

Posted: Sun Sep 15, 2013 5:05 am

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Are there with me now??i miss you so much

Am I where? Please don't email me like you are in a chat room. Email me what you are doing, your thoughts and feelings. Tell me what makes you, you. How are we ever going to get this relationship off the ground if you refuse to write more than 2 sentences.

I am starting to wonder if you even like me!

Fred

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am doing great dear....i don't know whether i will be getting access to the site when i get there...so i think we should have a personal conversation account like the yahoo or the gmail so that we can chat more offen...I LOVE YOU SO MUCH...are you there with me and how are you doing today...hope to hear from you again

Lovely Rose,

You can reach me at my gmail address <baiting email>. If you can always reach me there if you have email access. I have a busy week coming up with work, my parents are renovating some of the complexes and it's up to me to coordinate all the activity, make sure all the permits are on the up and up, but I will check my email often to see how you are.

Your love,

Fred

Quote:

okay honey...but honey can you do me a favour when i get there....

Lovely Rose,

What would you like for me to do?

Yours,
Fred

Here it comes, she's asked me to buy her something. Like I am going to be buying her stuff.

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i want you to help to buy some dress and shirt for my son and i...

I am offended and want to know if she's using me as a sugar daddy

Rosina,

WHAT? I am not going to buy your clothes. Is the reason you are writing me is that I will buy you stuff? Do you think I am your sugar daddy?

That's absurd

Fred

I am unsure if that will keep her going or if she's going to drop me. I hope she isn't going to drop me.

Posted: Sun Sep 15, 2013 6:28 am

She still loves me

Quote:

i just asked for a favour..am sorry for saying that okay...but i still love you..nothing is going to stop me from loving you.please forgive me okay. hope to hear from you again??

My lovely Rose,

It just startled me, that's all. I had a friend tell me that some women go on dating sites and ask men for money, the women thinking that the man is so desperate that he would buy them things and never really care about the man in the first place. I do not think you would be one of them, but it did startle me.

Yours,
Fred

Let's see what she comes up with next.

She's supposed to be in Africa tomorrow, but it takes like 20 hours to get there, doesn't it?

Posted: Sun Sep 15, 2013 11:09 am

Congrats, SB, your first slap and off script response!